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Stephen, 63 from Plover, Wisconsin

My friends think ( tell you the truth, they don't know what to think ) I tend to do strange things ( even my son thinks I'm strange ) Like when I just upped and moved to Puerto Vallarta. I also went to Playa Del Carmen next to Cancun and Chetumel on the border of Belize. Thought about moving to Belize, found out it's a third world country. I have also traveled to the Dominican Republic and Cartagena on the coast in Columbia, a very romantic city. Thought about moving to these countries but unlike Mexico, you must know...

Pam, 39 from Plover, Wisconsin

i want to meet someone mature reasonable and knows how to treat a woman right!! someone who always want to do something romantic and fun

Nora, 37 from Richmond, VA

I'm in the prime of my life, at my sexual peak. I just can't get enough. Hit me up. I'm always ready to go!

Mj, 50 from Buffalo, Las Vegas, NV

I am very outgoing ,smart, loving ,caring and kind . Just getting back into the dating scene after 23 years of marriage so not really looking to move too fast into anything gonna take my time and see what happens.

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