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Nadia, 27 from Tuscaloosa, AL

I just want a white man with a decent size cozk and a pretty face

Constantine, 70 from Santa Rosa, CA

Cute and cuddly down to earth senior who's compassionate, affectionate with a sense of humor. I'm a vegetarian who's into creative cooking. I'm an animal nature lover and a retired professional artist who worked for a major motion picture studio. I enjoy travel, dancing and musical theater. I have a classic sports car which I like to take out and explore this beautiful Sonoma County. I would like the company of someone from the opposite sex for some good times on the road.

Susan, 52 from Mineral Springs, Charlotte, NC

First, I'm married but my husband is cuckold and I am free to date as I please. I'm also a Domme but I'm not here to find subs. I'm a full blooded cougar and prefer men less than 40 yrs of age. That doesn't mean if you are over 40 that I have NO interest but have lots of energy and bring on your A game

Jennette, 33 from Anchorage, AK

Looking for a guy who be sick, and cool at the same time. No hangups. No Drama, not interested in that.

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