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Sammy, 49 from Saint Paul, Minnesota

Looking for a good time and to warm things up a bit . No ties just drama free fun , I'm up for almost anything. Friendship is important and will be a plus

Genie, 44 from Morristown, TN

I am 44yrd woman who wants to try out new and exciting things... so far i have tryed out one of my fantasies... didn't go the way i thought, but i havnt given up on it yet.. got a few more i would like to try out yet.. if you think you might be interested.. hit me up....

Hannah, 27 from Saint Paul, Minnesota

Im looking for a guy who wants to have good time & doesnt mind taking care of girls who take care of them.

Jean, 53 from Saint Paul, Minnesota

Petite, athletic NW Houston suburban natural blond prefers Tall,Trim,Clean-Shaved and very Handsome Boy-Toys (under 40) who appreciate a" very smooth" operator....I do not respond to crudes ...so please show some class, w/ your recent photos & best way to make contact. If you are the impatient-type, no thank you.... I'm in no hurry ....enjoying a longterm relationship and just want a little spice w/ a goodlooking FWB & No Strings......real simple

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