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Jennette, 33 from San Diego, California

Looking for a guy who be sick, and cool at the same time. No hangups. No Drama, not interested in that.

Susan, 52 from Mineral Springs, Charlotte, NC

First, I'm married but my husband is cuckold and I am free to date as I please. I'm also a Domme but I'm not here to find subs. I'm a full blooded cougar and prefer men less than 40 yrs of age. That doesn't mean if you are over 40 that I have NO interest but have lots of energy and bring on your A game

Mo, 44 from Fort Loudon, PA

I would like to find a discreet sexy male for some naughty playtime.

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Just in a marriage that is blah. Looking for some fun.....

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