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Sexyred, 37 from Springfield, MO

I'm a natural redhead sweetheart & I luv havin a lil extra fun once in a while... Lol...actually, my appetite is pretty big. I'm a happy person & very sexual by nature with an open mind. Anyone that gets to know me, knows immediately that I'm pretty sarcastic & a natural flirt~TOTALLY BI~and I don't beat around the bush much-I'm pretty blunt. I just wanna have good grown fun. -I didn't play games or deal with drama in school, so there's def no way I will now... We're all grown here! (or suppose to be!) ;)

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Interested in dogging spots with my man

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Claire, 34 from Ransom Place, Indianapolis, IN

I am active, sociable girl who likes bright and eventful life. I am hardworking and I enjoy the comfort of my home. But I also enjoy good fun as life offers so many beautiful and interesting things. But I have no special someone I could share my interests with

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