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Pam, 47 from Sun Prairie, WI

Seriously, y'all who send me messages and are 500+ miles away? What do you think is going to magically happen where we meet up? Lol, ya just crack me up... Simple girl with simple tastes. For now, we'll skip the fact that I used to be a gymnast. And cheerleader. I have a creative imagination and great sense of humor. I'm snuggly also... Just in case you are curious, separated means working on divorce. I kind of figured why should I be married to a man who keeps forgetting that he's married? So, yes, if you are married please...

Patrick, 24 from Valley, Alabama

I'm a young man with a lot of energy that keeps coming and doesn't end. I Love to have sex and that's something I can't control over myself. I'm an out going person and loves to pleasure a real woman's body. lick your wet pussy and fuck the cream out of your pussy or ass whatever one you like. I'm looking for a one on one sex, one night stand and a discreet relationship. Age doesn't matter as long as you can take my huge dick deep inside your pussy till you cum all over my dick. I'm a...

Lori, 32 from Anniston, AL

Married female ready to explore new things

D, 41 from Atlantic Boulevard Estates, Jacksonville, FL

Hi potential friend, I am 41 yrs old and looking for a no-strings romantic/sexual/friend relationship. I would love to have a partner to go out to eat, drink, dance and see where that leads us at the end of the night. I also want to make it clear that I have my own life and responsiblities and do not want a relationship or the commitments that come along with that at this time. I would like to meet someone that has the following qualities: handsome, charismatic, funny (sense of humor), loves music and dancing and can be seen in...