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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply the best way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

  • Professional singles who don't have time for a serious relationship
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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Create you own photo profile today and see who's interested in you. Registration up is quick and simple. As soon as you register you will instantly be able to search our database of horny guys and girls in Vinemont, upload your own sexy photos and start writing your own naughty online profile. Don't worry, your personal details are never displayed and everything you do here on My Bed or Yours is completely anonymous.

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Cgene, 41 from Vinemont, Alabama

I'm here for whatever happens, no specific expectations, flirting, going out, dating, who knows.... and maybe more.....just a good guy with a healthy and fun sexual to site...will add more

Shaundrea, 30 from Masonic Home, KY

To know me is to Love me

Lisa, 23 from Mequon, WI

I'm here for a long term relationship but a nice guy who is sexy. I'm also looking dor someone who is willing to come to Wisconsin because i don't drive. I have epilepsy. And if u want anything from me you'll have to come and get itand if u weren't thinking about a longterm relationship and u might want to change your mind if i tell u that i could make every morning with u pleasurable.and we could have hot steaming sex in the morning. I'm obviously not afraid of sex. And I'm ready for it for anybody who...

Mine, 33 from East Germantown, Philadelphia, PA

I am silly, fun ,out going and love to try new things and I love a natural red head .. Let the fun began..

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