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Christina, 23 from Buffalo, NY

I'm new to this, but I like trying different things

Jim, 60 from Edwardsville, IL

I am open to the ideas of a partner. However, I don't mind taking control. Sometimes it's just about taking turns. Giving and getting is always best. You can't shock me so speak up. I am not afraid to seriously tackle the art of diving. I will not leave you with any doubt that someone was there. In fact, that would be my attitude regardless of prefered activities..

Kate, 45 from Virginia, Minnesota

Always looking for outdoor fun!

Jenn, 32 from Williamsburg, KY

I'm in a relationship that just isnt exciting anymore and I'm looking to spice things up with a man that is confident and knows what he wants. A good sense of humor and wit are a major plus.

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