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Amanda, 22 from Gilbert, AZ

looking for older man(40+) to fuck, I am 22 yr old dyke girl who loves cock too much

Jessica, 39 from Bakersfield, California

I'm looking for someone who will rock my world!

Becki, 40 from Tipp City, OH

My husband and I love to have Fun. He enjoys it when I get to have a lot of fun. If yoy are intoba good time with lots of laughs and maybe more send me a note. I prefer more than one at a time so if you are shy we will not be a match.

Tigress, 28 from Bakersfield, California

My man and I are looking to go dogging in our area.

Dbush, 46 from Bakersfield, California

Happily married, two kids at home. Love to hunt and fish. Garden, photography, an massage. I am fun, outgoing, and honest. Looking for discreet FWB.

Michaelmmqz, 34 from Boise, ID

I am a single good looking guy that is looking to have some fun with a married woman that is needing some pleasure. I am very discreet and have a great job and my own cars and house. I am all about pleasing and satisfying a woman's needs and wants. I am very clean and always play safe, unless we know and trust each other enough not too! But that would be up to you! My name is michaelmmqz and put an at behind that with a G and then add a M with a AIL and if your real you would understand that and then you should message me if your needing some pleasure!

D, 41 from Bakersfield, California

Hi potential friend, I am 41 yrs old and looking for a no-strings romantic/sexual/friend relationship. I would love to have a partner to go out to eat, drink, dance and see where that leads us at the end of the night. I also want to make it clear that I have my own life and responsiblities and do not want a relationship or the commitments that come along with that at this time. I would like to meet someone that has the following qualities: handsome, charismatic, funny (sense of humor), loves music and dancing and can be seen in public with another woman, without issues. I do not want drama. I want to enjoy the company of a man with the above qualities and without complications. I am single and intend to remain single however I find myself missing out on some of the pleasures of life for several years now. If you have these qualities and see yourself in the same mindset we may be a match.

Mj, 50 from Buffalo, Las Vegas, NV

I am very outgoing ,smart, loving ,caring and kind . Just getting back into the dating scene after 23 years of marriage so not really looking to move too fast into anything gonna take my time and see what happens.

Kc, 67 from Arlington, TX

I'm here to find one very hot lady for day or nights of sexual fun.

Lovergirl, 22 from Bakersfield, California

Im looking someone to spent the rest of my life with,have fun all day and night,someone that loves me and can fuck me every day never miss,and im waiting for that special someone...believe me i can do anything you want,like sucking your dick harder,play with your dick and absolutely sleep with your dick in my mouth and my pussy on yours......feel free to hit me up...i am 22 and looking for someone 22 or25....I'm waiting pussy eaters....

Rebekah, 47 from Show Low, AZ

New to mountain, 5' 7", 110 lbs, brunette, very high sex drive, looking for FWB

Marci, 29 from Bakersfield, California

I'm 29 and marries but separated... Seeking divorce. I'm both shy and bit wild ;) I'm seeking casual NSA hookios

Pam, 39 from Ambridge, PA

i want to meet someone mature reasonable and knows how to treat a woman right!! someone who always want to do something romantic and fun

Ken, 54 from Whitefish, MT

I am a three time divorcee, not looking for anything long term right now. simple sex, just about any position works. no d,d free

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