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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Everyone's welcome

We welcome members of all ages (over 18's please), shapes, sizes and sexual experience. Please do bear in mind that this is an adult community where members discuss topics of a sexual nature and post images often of a sexual nature. If this offends you please do not continue. If you are open minded and keen to try now things then please, make yourself at home. Register for free and introduce yourself with an icebreaker.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.
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I'm 29 and marries but separated... Seeking divorce. I'm both shy and bit wild ;) I'm seeking casual NSA hookios

Rebekah, 47 from Show Low, AZ

New to mountain, 5' 7", 110 lbs, brunette, very high sex drive, looking for FWB

John, 46 from Black Forest, Colorado

Looking to explore all of a woman's sexual interests. I love to see what makes people tick! Turn-ons, turn-offs, secret desires and unexplored territories, lol. Life is too short to leave interests unexplored and a woman's body to beautiful to leave untouched. Send me a wink and let's see where it leads ;-)

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