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Dave winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (5th May at 2:59am)
Love the gym, sex watersport outdoor sex anywhere
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Young guy look after myself not to bad on the eye . But I'm very shy
Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 7:24pm) Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)
Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...
Open minded and looking for women - including married or attached who are looking to spice up their life... Maybe your husband is neglecting you? Maybe your missing out on lovemaking? Then drop me a message I am a single guy looking to have discreet fun. I am clean, well mannered, well endowed (9 inch un-cut), drug and disease free. I am looking for drama free, sensual, heaps of foreplay, surprises and great fun.
Cable sent you a message: "W T F ???" (18th Jan at 3:30am)
Looking to provide some fun and excitement for a like minded local(ish) woman, no strings, just mutual fulfillment and good company. My love life has been neglected and lost in the wilderness for far too long now so energy to burn!
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I'm a fit and healthy with an athletic physique and appetite and stamina to match :-) Non smokers only pls. Not "looking" for anything in particular...who knows what develops...but definitely have needs and desires that shouldn't be neglected....!
Flavio sent you a message: "hola" (yesterday at 2:04am) Flavio winked at you (yesterday at 2:04am)
I'm a very caring person who would love to make you feel special. I'm very fit and healthy, young in mind, body and spirit! I care about my appearance and like to keep in shape. I am passionate and positive about life in general.The intimate and sensual side of a relationship is equally important to the rest. I give unconditionally. I look, feel and act much younger than my age. Articulate and professional, who knows how to treat a lady and with respect. Liberal and very tolerant. Look at life positively and something to make the most of - too precious to waste...
Youngcub looking for some naughty experienced cougars ready to teach me and mabe ill show you some tricks along the way ;) Get at me if your looking for some young meat
I'm easy going and love a laugh. Looking for someone who is like minded. Happy to just have fun but open to a more permanent set up. Live on my own and fully self sufficient. Can travel for the right experience.
Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 1:51am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:59am) Jonathan winked at you (8th Feb at 2:04am) Jonathan winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:18am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (1st Feb at 11:11pm)
Kiwibuilder has yet to add his profile. Ask Kiwibuilder for more info.
Easy going and drama free.. keen to chat and meet if your the same.. don't hesitate to say hello..
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