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Ultimate USA Sex Guide

Welcome to the ultimate guide to adult attractions in the USA! Whether you’re a seasoned traveller seeking the hottest nightlife spots or someone looking to explore the legal and cultural landscape surrounding sex and adult entertainment in The US, you’ve come to the right place. From strip clubs, sex clubs and swingers parties and the intricate legal framework governing activities like prostitution and consent, we present the ultimate USA sex guide.


Futuristic gamers lovers

Game On: Gamers Top the Scoreboard for Sexual Satisfaction

In a world where gaming has become an integral part of our daily lives, a recent study by 2Player Dating has uncovered a surprising correlation between gamers and exceptional performance in the bedroom. Contrary to stereotypes, it appears that honing one’s skills in the digital realm may have unexpected benefits in the realm of romance. The research sheds light on the connection between gaming prowess and heightened sexual satisfaction, suggesting that gamers may just be the unsung heroes of the dating scene.


Your first fetish club expectations

For those curious about exploring their more daring inclinations, attending a fetish club for the first time can be an enlightening journey of self-discovery and empowerment but can be the cause of some trepidation. Stepping through the doors of a fetish club is like entering an alternate realm where norms are challenged, and taboos are redefined. In this article, we delve into the intriguing world of fetish clubs, shedding light on what to expect, how to prepare, and the do’s and don’ts of fetish club etiquette.


Australia’s Bold Embrace: Empowering Sex Workers and Red Light Areas

Australia, the land down under, has been at the forefront of a revolutionary transformation in its approach to sex work and red light areas. Gone are the days of harsh criminalization and stigma; the nation now stands tall as a beacon of progressive change, prioritizing the rights, safety, and empowerment of sex workers. From the sandy beaches of New South Wales to the bustling streets of Victoria, each state has its own unique journey towards fostering a more inclusive and responsible environment for the sex industry.


Things to do in Denver – A Journey through the City’s Top Strip Clubs

Denver, the Mile High City, is not only renowned for its breathtaking mountain views and outdoor adventures but also for its vibrant nightlife. Among the myriad of entertainment options, Denver’s strip clubs stand out as prime destinations for those seeking a thrilling and unforgettable night out. From upscale venues to laid-back favorites, let’s dive into Denver’s top strip clubs and explore the unique offerings of each.


The Ultimate Guide to Exploring Vegas Sex Clubs

Welcome to the dazzling playground of Las Vegas, where the lights shine bright, and the night takes on a seductive allure. Among the myriad of entertainment options, Vegas is home to an enticing selection of sex clubs that cater to the desires of adventurous souls. If you’re curious about exploring this world of adult entertainment, buckle up for an unforgettable journey as we delve into some of the most popular sex clubs in Sin City.


Fuck buddies

My Bed or Yours guide to finding local fuck buddies, keeping it casual and rules of engagement.

For those unacquainted to the term ‘fuck buddy’, it is simply a term commonly used to describe a relationship based on casual sex where both parties are happy to meet up for sex but are not in an exclusive or serious relationship.


Alternatives to Craigslist and Backpage adult personals

Since Craigslist announced they would be closing down their online personals section, popular with singles looking for local hookups and escorts touting their services, the world of free online personals has been left with a huge void to be filled. While sites like Backpage and popular hookup apps such as Tinder have increased in popularity, people still crave the simplicity, variety and free access Craigslist provided.


Australia tops the charts for cheating

According to research by Sexual Health Australia, around 70 percent of Australian marriages experience infidelity, with around 60% of men and 45% of women admitting to straying. Sexual Health Australia do not specify what is considered cheating in their research. For many people the definition of cheating varies considerably. In some relationships, flirting and touching is a perfectly acceptable part of a healthy relationship while others consider this a betrayal.


How to spice up your sex life using online sex finder sites

If your sex life is dull, boring or non-existent, or you feel you need to experience something new and exciting. Finding sex online is probably the easiest and most convenient way to meet new people for casual sex. In this guide, we will discuss different ways to meet new people online for sex. How to approach people and what to expect.

Find sex online fast

Rather than trying to hookup for sex using dating apps like Tinder or trawling personals on Craigslist or Backpage, the absolute best way to find casual sex online is through a dedicated sex finder app or website. Choosing a trustworthy site can be a bit of a minefield but once you find the right site, the opportunities for free, casual sex are endless.

Find a site to explore sexual fantasies and try new things

One advantage of meeting new people online for sex is the variety of different people who use such sites which gives you the chance to explore hidden fantasies, try new things and maybe, learn something new. This is especially true if you are recently single after a long-term relationship and have limited sexual experience outside of that relationship. Fortunately, many sites like My Bed or Yours offer a multitude of search options so you can meet different people looking for varied sexual encounters and experiences with different people. With My Bed or Yours you can even search for members by their favourite sexual position! Choosing a site with the ability to search members by sexual interests, fetishes and sexual positions is a fantastic way to spice up your sex life, try something new in the bedroom or even meet couples looking for a threesome or local swingers.

What is the best sex finder app?

Obviously, we will say My Bed or Yours, but that’s because we believe it. There are loads of online sex finders out there. Some claiming to be free, some good, some not so good. Firstly we should look at free hookup apps. Ask yourself why are they free? A quality service requires investment, staff and marketing. How can a website offer a quality service for free? Often, the answer is simple. Its not really free. Others subsidise the cost of operating by selling your personal information or spamming you with unwanted ads. A good personals site will offer you the opportunity to try their service for free or a small fee and once you are happy, you can pay a reasonable monthly subscription for a quality service with plenty of members to keep you entertained. My Bed or Yours are so confident in the quality of our service, we offer both. Any person over 18 is able to register a totally free trial account without any credit card details, All you need is a working email address. Your free account will allow you to explore all the areas of our site, search members and upload one profile photo. You will also be able to upgrade your account to premium membership on a three day trial basis for a very small fee which is a low cost way of experiencing the full site, unlimited messaging, video calling, premium profile placement and unlimited photos and videos. We are confident that once you see just how easy it is to find sex online, you will become a lasting member of our naughty dating community.

Meeting people through casual dating sites

You have decided what site you want to use, signed up and verified your account, what’s next?

Firstly, you will need an attention grabbing profile. This includes a recent photo. Hide your face if you are shy. And a brief but catchy intro. Keep it short, friendly and to the point. No one reads a full page manifesto, they will simply move on.

Once you have an active profile, make sure you complete any questions you are asked such as location, age, sexual preferences and characteristics you are looking for. Most hookup sites use these to show the most relevant matches to other members so you want to show up in as many relevant searches as possible.

Now you are ready for some fun

Hopefully, you are now set up on a reputable sex finder site or app, have a quality profile and are now matching with similar members near you. How to you approach other members to ensure the best success rate?

A combination approach works best here. As with picking up guys or girls in a bar, it’s a bit of a numbers game. The more people you hit on, the better chance of success. This doesn’t mean sacrificing a quality approach for a sloppy, copy and paste generic message. Try to identify with something in a users profile that demonstrates you have taken the time to read it. A simple message such as the following should instigate a conversation.

“hey, I see you like 90’s music. Have you ever been to The Depot in Salt Lake City?

Hopefully, now you will have sent out some messages and received some replies. You will find that many replies will be more forward than messages you would expect to receive on most dating sites. This isn’t an excuse to demand sex, be rude or pushy. Sure, feel free to say what you are looking for and what you enjoy, but keep it polite, relaxed and friendly and you will be rewarded..

Look out for our upcoming post on meeting for sex for the first time.