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Welcome to MyBedOrYours, the site for those looking for bedroom playmates, local hookups and swinging couples. Climb between the crisp white sheets and let your fantasies run wild. My Bed or Yours, hooks you up with other sexy people for wild nights of sensual, erotic fun. Don't just dream about it - make it a reality - feel their hands on your body, your lips on their - we're sure you can finish that yourself. Offering a casual dating service for members in the USA looking for a discreet adult date or fuck buddy.

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You can search members all over the US via our secure website or our mobile site - a naughty horny playmate is never further away than reaching into your pocket.

You can add yourself to the list of people getting lucky tonight by signing up with us. Registration takes just minutes and we don't need your credit card to get you started. You can then browse the picture profiles or the members next door or find a little fun further afield with our advanced location searches. Imagine the excitement of your first encounter.

Up your emoji game to make your messages pop

Why emojis? 😏

Emojis add a certain extra something to your messages – a sprinkle of flirtation, a pinch of spice, a wink. 😉 They add context to what you’re saying – they show your hot matches that you’re being coy, cheeky, or downright dirty. 😈

Emojis are a way to say what you mean quickly, and catch their attention in a flash of color. There’s lots of horny people out there (and we love it!) but that does mean you gotta stand out from the crowd.

💡 Emoji Tip: They’re not just for your messages! Slip a few emojis into your header and bio to get your point across.

I’m (not that) innocent 😇

Hey – not all conversations start off super horny. 🙅 Wanna test the waters? Something cute like an angel will soften your cheeky innuendo…

“Do you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants. 😇”

Still keeping it flirty, rather than dirty? Seal it with a kiss…

“So, aside from taking my breath away, what do you do for a living? 💋😘”

Ready to turn it up? Let’s get fiery…

“Is it hot in here or is that just you? 🌶🔥”

Turned on 🥵

Once you’ve got the pleasantries out the way and you’ve started talking dirty, you’ll wanna find new ways to show your match that you’re turned on. 🔥 Thankfully, you’ve got a lot of options! Try some of these for size…

😉 😛 😝 😋 😜 😏 🤤 😈 😵‍💫 🥵 😩

We’ve ordered these from horny to hornier, but you can decide if you agree… 😜

💡 Emoji Tip: Use horny faces to react to the hot pics, voice messages, or videos they’re sending your way. 😵‍💫🥵

Let’s get specific 👅

Emojis are your shorthand for sexytalk. Wanna cut to the chase? Here’s a few of our favorite codes… 👉

🍆 Cock

🌸 Pussy

🍒 Tits

🍑 Ass or anal

🍑📞 Booty call

“Got time for a 🍑📞 tonight?”

👙⬇️ “Pull those panties down”

This one’s great for when you’re sending X-rated pics back and forth. 😏

🍆✊ Handjob

🌸☝️ Vaginal fingering

“My pussy’s so wet, you wanna slip a finger in? 🌸☝️”

🍑☝️ Anal fingering

👅 Oral sex

Add in 🍆 or 🌸 if you wanna get more specific. 😉

🍑👅 Rimming

🍒🍆 Titty fucking

“You into titty fucking? 🍒🍆”

👉👌 Sex

💦 Cum

🍆💦 Jizz

💦🌸 Squirt

“Wanna see if I can make you 💦🌸…”

🎭 Roleplay

💧 Lube

“Hey baby, you got everything we need for later? 💧💧”

🫦 Biting and hickeys

🍦🥭🍓😋 Food play

Feel free to try any other food you wanna have some sexy fun with: “Can I cover your body in 🍫 and 👅 it all off…?”

⛓ or 🖤 BDSM

“Wanna tie me up? ⛓”

🥺 Feeling sub

😈 Feeling Dom

This was your favorite sexy emoji, according to our recent poll. You horny devils… 😏

🖐️💥🍑 Spanking

“I wanna bend over for you, Mistress 🥺 Wanna turn these cheeks red? 🖐️💥🍑”

🔥🧊 Temperature play

🕳️ “I’m just a hole”

This one’s for the fans of objectification and erotic humiliation 🥺

😩 Pain

…but the good kind 😉

“How hard can you take it? 😩”

💡 Emoji Tip: Emojis aren't a universal code, so you can add content in the message if you think they ain’t getting it. “I wanna 👅 your 🍑 tonight baby, so get that sexy hole ready for Daddy, okay? 😈”. Now you’ve got a shorthand for next time! 😉

Read the room 👀

Meet your match at their level – if they’re not using a lot of emojis, then give them something easy to understand. 😉 If they’re throwing them out left and right, give them something longer to decipher. 🍆💦➡️👅❓ Follow the signals they’re giving you, and don’t jump to full-blown filthy right off the bat. 🙅

Not sure where you’re at? 🤔 Test the waters with something suggestive: a kiss 😘 or a compliment: “you’re looking 🔥 in that profile pic!”

Remember, dirty talk only works when everyone’s on the same page! ☝️

Now, who’s ready to 💋 and 👅, then 👉👌 until we 😩💦💦…?

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