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Up your emoji game to make your messages pop

Why emojis? ๐Ÿ˜

Emojis add a certain extra something to your messages โ€“ a sprinkle of flirtation, a pinch of spice, a wink. ๐Ÿ˜‰ They add context to what youโ€™re saying โ€“ they show your hot matches that youโ€™re being coy, cheeky, or downright dirty. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

Emojis are a way to say what you mean quickly, and catch their attention in a flash of color. Thereโ€™s lots of horny people out there (and we love it!) but that does mean you gotta stand out from the crowd.

๐Ÿ’ก Emoji Tip: Theyโ€™re not just for your messages! Slip a few emojis into your header and bio to get your point across.

Iโ€™m (not that) innocent ๐Ÿ˜‡

Hey โ€“ not all conversations start off super horny. ๐Ÿ™… Wanna test the waters? Something cute like an angel will soften your cheeky innuendoโ€ฆ

โ€œDo you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants. ๐Ÿ˜‡โ€

Still keeping it flirty, rather than dirty? Seal it with a kissโ€ฆ

โ€œSo, aside from taking my breath away, what do you do for a living? ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜˜โ€

Ready to turn it up? Letโ€™s get fieryโ€ฆ

โ€œIs it hot in here or is that just you? ๐ŸŒถ๐Ÿ”ฅโ€

Turned on ๐Ÿฅต

Once youโ€™ve got the pleasantries out the way and youโ€™ve started talking dirty, youโ€™ll wanna find new ways to show your match that youโ€™re turned on. ๐Ÿ”ฅ Thankfully, youโ€™ve got a lot of options! Try some of these for sizeโ€ฆ

๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜‹ ๐Ÿ˜œ ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿคค ๐Ÿ˜ˆ ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ ๐Ÿฅต ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Weโ€™ve ordered these from horny to hornier, but you can decide if you agreeโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ˜œ

๐Ÿ’ก Emoji Tip: Use horny faces to react to the hot pics, voice messages, or videos theyโ€™re sending your way. ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿฅต

Letโ€™s get specific ๐Ÿ‘…

Emojis are your shorthand for sexytalk. Wanna cut to the chase? Hereโ€™s a few of our favorite codesโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ‘‰

๐Ÿ† Cock

๐ŸŒธ Pussy

๐Ÿ’ Tits

๐Ÿ‘ Ass or anal

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ“ž Booty call

โ€œGot time for a ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ“ž tonight?โ€

๐Ÿ‘™โฌ‡๏ธ โ€œPull those panties downโ€

This oneโ€™s great for when youโ€™re sending X-rated pics back and forth. ๐Ÿ˜

๐Ÿ†โœŠ Handjob

๐ŸŒธโ˜๏ธ Vaginal fingering

โ€œMy pussyโ€™s so wet, you wanna slip a finger in? ๐ŸŒธโ˜๏ธโ€

๐Ÿ‘โ˜๏ธ Anal fingering

๐Ÿ‘… Oral sex

Add in ๐Ÿ† or ๐ŸŒธ if you wanna get more specific. ๐Ÿ˜‰

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘… Rimming

๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ† Titty fucking

โ€œYou into titty fucking? ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ†โ€

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘Œ Sex

๐Ÿ’ฆ Cum

๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฆ Jizz

๐Ÿ’ฆ๐ŸŒธ Squirt

โ€œWanna see if I can make you ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐ŸŒธโ€ฆโ€

๐ŸŽญ Roleplay

๐Ÿ’ง Lube

โ€œHey baby, you got everything we need for later? ๐Ÿ’ง๐Ÿ’งโ€

๐Ÿซฆ Biting and hickeys

๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ˜‹ Food play

Feel free to try any other food you wanna have some sexy fun with: โ€œCan I cover your body in ๐Ÿซ and ๐Ÿ‘… it all offโ€ฆ?โ€

โ›“ or ๐Ÿ–ค BDSM

โ€œWanna tie me up? โ›“โ€

๐Ÿฅบ Feeling sub

๐Ÿ˜ˆ Feeling Dom

This was your favorite sexy emoji, according to our recent poll. You horny devilsโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ˜

๐Ÿ–๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ‘ Spanking

โ€œI wanna bend over for you, Mistress ๐Ÿฅบ Wanna turn these cheeks red? ๐Ÿ–๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ‘โ€

๐Ÿ”ฅ๐ŸงŠ Temperature play

๐Ÿ•ณ๏ธ โ€œIโ€™m just a holeโ€

This oneโ€™s for the fans of objectification and erotic humiliation ๐Ÿฅบ

๐Ÿ˜ฉ Pain

โ€ฆbut the good kind ๐Ÿ˜‰

โ€œHow hard can you take it? ๐Ÿ˜ฉโ€

๐Ÿ’ก Emoji Tip: Emojis aren't a universal code, so you can add content in the message if you think they ainโ€™t getting it. โ€œI wanna ๐Ÿ‘… your ๐Ÿ‘ tonight baby, so get that sexy hole ready for Daddy, okay? ๐Ÿ˜ˆโ€. Now youโ€™ve got a shorthand for next time! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Read the room ๐Ÿ‘€

Meet your match at their level โ€“ if theyโ€™re not using a lot of emojis, then give them something easy to understand. ๐Ÿ˜‰ If theyโ€™re throwing them out left and right, give them something longer to decipher. ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฆโžก๏ธ๐Ÿ‘…โ“ Follow the signals theyโ€™re giving you, and donโ€™t jump to full-blown filthy right off the bat. ๐Ÿ™…

Not sure where youโ€™re at? ๐Ÿค” Test the waters with something suggestive: a kiss ๐Ÿ˜˜ or a compliment: โ€œyouโ€™re looking ๐Ÿ”ฅ in that profile pic!โ€

Remember, dirty talk only works when everyoneโ€™s on the same page! โ˜๏ธ

Now, whoโ€™s ready to ๐Ÿ’‹ and ๐Ÿ‘…, then ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘Œ until we ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ’ฆโ€ฆ?

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