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Looking for, ages 22-90.
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Straight
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Straight
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Straight
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I’m on here looking for Fwb and also see where it goes from there open to anything
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-86.
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I'm understanding and have a good sense of humor.. I do have a big heart and I do give when its time to
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Looking for, ages 40-79.
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I'm 45 years old, living in the New York region.
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I’m down for whatever pleasure and I can travel for a meet. I prefer meeting in person than having an endless conversation online.
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Looking for, ages 38-90.
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