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Im 31 years old, living in the Pennsburg region. Female 31 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Female 28 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

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I’m a dominant woman looking for a lovely And obedient submissive to have fun .. Female 29 from New York New York, USA

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Female 56 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Hi, Im laura, am new here and Im happy to be here. Female 34 from Milford, Pennsylvania

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If you suck..I suck too. Lets do this! Female 55 from Coatesville Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 40 years old, living in the Hartford region. Female 41 from Hartford Connecticut, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the Hartford region.
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Looking for a serious and a long term relationship with someone I can trust and .. Female 39 from Piscataway New Jersey, USA

I`m very calm and positive person. I try to live always with smile on my face. I`m very kind and I appreciate the same people. I`m serious lady and purposeful lady.I try to get from life everything positive and nice, because it is very important for me nice and long life. I appreciate romantic so much, because I`m one of the most romantic woman. I`ll be passionate with one person who`ll find right way to my heart and soul. I am joyful, I am passionate and I am real. I am a person who enjoys simple things - a cup of tea, a kiss, a loving man next to me. I can find my own way to be happy in this life. But to be totally happy - I need to find my love.


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I’m looking for something ongoing and hopes it turns into something serious and .. Female 44 from Hartford Connecticut, USA

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Hey, I’m Miss Ray. I’m a findom who loves to dominating men into submission. Female 32 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

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Looking out for soulmate and relationship Female 34 from New York New York, USA

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I am seeking a long-term partner with whom I can also share my interest and pref.. Female 64 from Morrisville Pennsylvania, USA

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Caring lady with caring heart looking for something new in life Female 38 from Georgetown Delaware, USA

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Trying to see where it goes though Female 38 from Germantown Maryland, USA

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Am dominatrix am turned on by playmate that love to play Female 30 from New Hampton New Hampshire, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the Texas City region. Female 38 from Carolina Rhode Island, USA

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have many interests and list them all would be too much space. Therefore, I will.. Female 39 from Florida New York, USA

have many interests and list them all would be too much space. Therefore, I will mention just some of them: Photo and travel, outdoor activities, boat rides on the lake can be so much fun, exercise, cycling, yoga, tennis


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Hello I’m new on here very friendly Female 38 from Chalfont Saint Peter, UK

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Im 40 years old, living in the Valparaiso region. Female 41 from Dedham Massachusetts, USA

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Im new on here seeking for something sweet with a man thats going to understan.. Female 45 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

I'm understanding and have a good sense of humor.. I do have a big heart and I do give when its time to


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I am Honest and open minded woman with a heart of forgiving. Female 37 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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Hello everyone I’m new on here Female 45 from New York New York, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the New York region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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I’m a dom not looking to switch or become a sub, total domination is my biggest .. Female 39 from Hartford Connecticut, USA

I’m down for whatever pleasure and I can travel for a meet. I prefer meeting in person than having an endless conversation online.


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