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Am looking for a Responsible man, who is Honest, Kind, Learned, Beautiful at Hea.. Female 42 from Rhodesdale Maryland, USA

I do want to go on with my life and I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for me and be good to me because I know that there has to be someone out there for me because his never does anything without a reason even if we can’t figure it out. I know just because the lord has someone else in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because he doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.I think showing affection in public is part of the acceptance of a relationship, Public intimacy is my thing. I miss that though. I like to held and to walk while holding my hand still, it's fun I guess.

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I am an open person. I love everything about creativity. I take various courses that can contribute to my personal development and in future help me to achieve my own goals and the formation of a career. I love to spend time with friends, go out of town to the mountains or to the sea. This is my weakness. There I feel incredibly comfortable and I can wander for hours and think about life. I realized one simple truth that you need to live now and take what life gives you. So I try to do what scares me to get stronger and catch a wave of new adrenaline mixed with fear and pleasure. Next to me I see a man who has understood this simple truth; who is serious about his search and at the same time who can easily agree to a spontaneous trip.

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you will listen to me . ill make it fun Female 19 from Halethorpe Maryland, USA

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