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Im looking for that special someone who will rekindle the love and flames of th.. Female 53 from New York New York, USA

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I can say that I am just a simple woman, caring and loving. I do not dream for m.. Female 58 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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I really like to swimming and go to beach and enjoy going to live band Female 63 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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A wonderful lady with a heart of Love. Female 48 from North Bergen New Jersey, USA

I am a loving mother, caring daughter and a good friend. Sociable, but for true friendship and love, I let only selected people into my soul. I love life and enjoy everything that surrounds me..I need a man who will believe, understand, support, advise and, if necessary, teach. I think that a man should honor family values, be responsible and loving.

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Mature Lady Rome NY seeks adult fun. Female 66 from Rome New York, USA

Easy going, fun, and shy at first. Love to dine out, dance and travel.
5' 6, Italian, dark hair with streaks of gray, cute smile.
I have learned that sex just got better at 60.

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I am into extreme experience and am looking for a fun filled partner to join me .. Female 34 from New York New York, USA

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