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We take the drama out of casual relationships and sexual wellness, connecting our members for local hook-ups and casual UK sex meets. Who wants to be tied down to one partner? MyBedOrYours UK makes finding horny, fun, Brits easy and fun. It is not for everyone. If you are easily offended or looking for something a bit more serious, we suggest you try another dating site. Here you will find people of all ages posting explicit photos, chatting and arranging casual meetups. If this sounds like fun, why not join MyBedOrYours UK for free today?

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Give your sex life the injection it needs. Using our location-based search facility find casual sex partners in England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland. Secure messaging system and massive database of active members from all over The UK, you can find what you want when you need it. Combine our location-based results with our advanced search filters to connect with your dream partner today.

What turns you on?

Whatever your pleasure, you can find someone who enjoys the same things in and out of the bedroom using our sexual compatibility filters. Find members who like the same things as you, try something new, even search members by their favourite sexual position! Search members near you looking for sex now.

Secure that hookup with our profile tips

Craft that kinky headline (30 - 250 characters) ✍️

Your headline should be a sexy one or two-liner that summarizes who you are and snatches the interest of those who've stumbled upon your profile. Great headlines are clear, simple, and intriguing enough to make your potential matches want to find out more. 👀

You’ve got roughly 5 - 40 words to get your seductive charm on with those potential matches. 😉 Be creative, be flirty, and keep them keen! 😏

Be bold and direct, owning your sexual nature and ready to get what you want! Using humor (maybe some sex puns!), or questions can help catch their attention, too. . We all know what we’re here for, so be as explicit as you like. If you love using emojis, be playful with those too. A simple suggestive set of emojis can sometimes say way more than 40 characters. 😜

Example: “Much better at giving head than headlines. 👅🍆 Let me prove that… ”

Example: “Bicurious couple looking for a third to join us in the bedroom. Open and up for experimenting!”

Example: “Pro: I’m a regular squirter. Con: Your neighbors will complain. Wanna risk it? 😜”

Example: “A blowjob makes my day, but anal makes my hole weak.”

Example: "Strictly non-vanilla - love playing sub, being collared, and BDSM parties. Let’s get freaky.”

Get dirty in your profile description 😜

Now that you've snatched their attention with your headline, reel them in more with a sexy profile description. Here, you’ve got a minimum of 50 and a maximum of 1,000 characters to work with (approx. 8 - 150 words), so delve deeper! ✨

You’ll have already added your kinks and interests on your profile (if not, why not?! 😈), so use this space to get into the nitty gritty. Looking for someone who you can tie up with ropes? Wanna meet new playmates to spice up your swinging parties? 😏 Just say it!

If you’re looking for regular fuckbuddy arrangements, put that out there, but do it in a sexy, light-hearted way. 😘 Relating it back to your kinks is a good way to do this.

The last line of your description will stick out most, so end your description on a horny note by including a dirty question that encourages your potential matches to reach out and message you (and gets them feeling all hot under the collar!). 🔥🥵

Example: “Looking for a long-term mistress who’ll keep me locked up all night and let me listen to her get fucked… 🥺🔒

Experienced Sub who love parties and kink events. Would love to meet more kinky people so say hi!”

💡 Top Tip: If in doubt, a suggestive sprinkling of emojis always helps bring your cheeky personality across. 😛🍆🍑🌸

Example: "We’re an adventurous couple and we wanna explore with group sex - threesomes for sure… 👀

We’re big lovers of sexual roleplay. Could you be our dirty doctor? Our sexy tutor who wants to punish us for being so naughty??

Tell us about what turns you on. We love talking dirty."

Example: "Bisexual Dominant top here looking for horny sluts to throw around the bedroom. If you’re into being whipped and tied up, ask me about my paddle, flog and cane collections. If you think you can take it… "

Ultimately, all your potential playmates out there want to know what turns you on, and what kinky fun they could be having with you, so tell them. 🤗

What are you waiting for? Go spruce up your profile - before you know it, the likes will come flooding in. Prepare to get WET! 💦💦💦

Have you used any cheeky one-liners in your profile bio? Share your secrets for getting your whipped into shape, and let’s keep the conversation going! 🌟🎉👇

Meet older women in the UK for sex

Lots of our members love meeting mature women for sex. With our huge database of active members all over The UK of all ages, finding your ideal sexual partner is fast and fun. You could be fucking a sexy cougar, local slapper or naughty MILF near you tonight.

The easy way to find sex near you

Search for a sexy MILF in London, Cougar in Manchester, Fat fuck buddy in Leeds or a horny housewife who loves sex outdoors in Edinburgh. The options are endless with our extensive database of members looking for NSA sex in The UK.

What is NSA?

NSA or no strings attached is a term often used to describe meeting or hooking up for casual sex. There are a multitude of reasons people turn to personals services such as our own to find no strings sex. Generally, it's simply because they are not getting enough sex but don't want to commit to a serious relationship or don't have the time to devote to a long-term partner. For others, they might be in a sexless relationship and need someone to fulfil their sexual needs. You will also find couples using My Bed or Yours to add a little excitement into their relationship by meeting other couples or singles for fun encounters.

Where are the horniest women

If you are looking for the naughtiest women, slutty girls or cheating housewives, here are the best places to find them in The UK.

Areas with the most female members

As you might expect from the capital city, London has the most members in our database. With its population of over 8 million people, vibrant nightlife and cosmopolitan residents you are likely to meet members from a wide range of backgrounds, ages and ethnicities. Its extensive public transport system and the M25 ring road, finding sex near you in London will be easy.

Closely following London is Liverpool with a large database of women of all ages. If you are looking for an older woman, Birmingham and Cardiff have the highest percentage of women over 40 looking for sex.

Where to find women looking for affairs

According to the 2018 Infidelity Index, the UK city with the highest number of cheats is St Albans in Hertfordshire followed by Oxford with the second highest number of affairs by population.

Top 20 cities in Great Britain for extra marital affairs
  • 1 St Albans
  • 2 Oxford
  • 4 Gloucester
  • 5 Durham
  • 6 Exeter
  • 7 Lichfield
  • 8 Peterborough
  • 9 Inverness
  • 10 Newcastle upon Tyne
  • 11 Nottingham
  • 12 Portsmouth
  • 13 York
  • 14 Cambridge
  • 15 Canterbury
  • 16 Norwich
  • 17 Belfast
  • 18 Derby
  • 19 Southampton
  • 20 Newport

Find me sex now

If the idea of finding casual sex without the disappointment and expense of trawling bars or paying for an escort sounds good to you, we have some great news for your today. All members who register get a FREE photo profile. Search and view other members profiles. Send winks and Icebreakers as well as uploading one profile photo and getting your own full profile on My Bed or Yours. All you need to do is fill in the quick registration form above using a valid email address so we can send you your unique login details. Once registered you can log in right away, create your profile and start searching members near you. You will have the option to upgrade your account for a small fee which will give your priority placement in search results as well as the option to upload multiple profile photos. This optional payment allows us to keep expanding our adult community, giving you the best selection of horny members looking for sex every day.

If you are looking for UK adult dating, swingers, one night stands, naughty online flirting or even a discreet affair, dive straight in and experience the easy way to find sex near you.

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