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We take the drama out of relationships, connecting our members for local hook-ups and casual sex meets. Who wants to be tied down to one partner? My Bed or Yours makes meeting for sex fast, easy and fun. It is not for everyone. If you are easily offended or looking for something a bit more serious, we suggest you try another dating site. Here you will find people of all ages posting explicit photos, chatting and arranging casual meetups. If this sounds like fun, why not join for free today?

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Using our location-based search facility, secure messaging system and massive database of active members from all over The UK, you can find what you want when you need it. Combine our location-based results with our advanced search filters to connect with your dream partner today.

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Whatever turns you on, you can find someone who enjoys the same things in and out of the bedroom using our sexual compatibility filters. Find members who like the same things as you, try something new, even search members by their favourite sexual position! Search members near you looking for sex now.

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Lots of our members love meeting older women for sex. With our huge database of active members all over The UK of all ages, finding your ideal sexual partner is fast and fun. You could be fucking a sexy cougar, local slapper or naughty MILF near you tonight.

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Search for a sexy MILF in London, Cougar in Manchester, Fat fuck buddy in Leeds or a horny housewife who loves sex outdoors in Edinburgh. The options are endless with our extensive database of members looking for NSA sex in The UK.

What is NSA?

NSA or no strings attached is a term often used to describe meeting or hooking up for casual sex. There are a multitude of reasons people turn to personals services such as our own to find no strings sex. Generally, it's simply because they are not getting enough sex but don't want to commit to a serious relationship or don't have the time to devote to a long-term partner. For others, they might be in a sexless relationship and need someone to fulfil their sexual needs. You will also find couples using My Bed or Yours to add a little excitement into their relationship by meeting other couples or singles for fun encounters.

Where are the horniest women

If you are looking for the naughtiest women, slutty girls or cheating housewives, here are the best places to find them in The UK.

Areas with the most female members

As you might expect from the capital city, London has the most members in our database. With its population of over 8 million people, vibrant nightlife and cosmopolitan residents you are likely to meet members from a wide range of backgrounds, ages and ethnicities. Its extensive public transport system and the M25 ring road, finding sex near you in London will be easy.

Closely following London is Liverpool with a large database of women of all ages. If you are looking for an older woman, Birmingham and Cardiff have the highest percentage of women over 40 looking for sex.

Where to find women looking for affairs

According to the 2018 Infidelity Index, the UK city with the highest number of cheats is St Albans in Hertfordshire followed by Oxford with the second highest number of affairs by population.

Top 20 cities for extra marital affairs
  • 1 St Albans
  • 2 Oxford
  • 4 Gloucester
  • 5 Durham
  • 6 Exeter
  • 7 Lichfield
  • 8 Peterborough
  • 9 Inverness
  • 10 Newcastle upon Tyne
  • 11 Nottingham
  • 12 Portsmouth
  • 13 York
  • 14 Cambridge
  • 15 Canterbury
  • 16 Norwich
  • 17 Belfast
  • 18 Derby
  • 19 Southampton
  • 20 Newport

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If the idea of finding casual sex without the disappointment and expense of trawling bars or paying for an escort sounds good to you, we have some great news for your today. All members who register get a FREE photo profile. Search and view other members profiles. Send winks and Icebreakers as well as uploading one profile photo and getting your own full profile on My Bed or Yours. All you need to do is fill in the quick registration form above using a valid email address so we can send you your unique login details. Once registered you can log in right away, create your profile and start searching members near you. You will have the option to upgrade your account for a small fee which will give your priority placement in search results as well as the option to upload multiple profile photos. This optional payment allows us to keep expanding our adult community, giving you the best selection of horny members looking for sex every day.

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