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First timers looking to share the experience with someone he 47 chubby bi sh.. Couple 47, 47 from Falmer, UK

Getting oral silly that's the best lol and I'm hoping  I find a good man who can play with both and  for sure give her the best threesome fun


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Looking for, ages 19-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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Adventure seeker looking for a partner in crime Female 28 from Brighton, UK

I am very flexible in my role. It's specifically the dominance aspect that interests me so I will adapt to accomadate most fetishes and limits. I make it a point not to enter into any D/s relationship until all parties have a firm grasp of what the arrangment will entail.

My only requirement from any potential sub is honesty. As long as you're honest with me I should be able to work with you. Also I am straight and therefore would prefer only female subs, but I will also work with males for more softcore scenarios.


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Looking for, ages 19-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Curious couple to enjoy sex play Couple 66, 56 from Brighton, UK

We are a couple who would like another person to join us for just enjoyment


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Threesomes, Video themselves

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I am a sensual Mistress who has been in the Lifestyle for some years. I enjoy gi.. Female 25 from Brighton, UK

I love been obeyed and worshiping
More importantly, I felt in total control of my body. Am a Mistress powerful, unapologetic, vicious, sweet, innocent, dirty.  newfound power and confidence in myself celebrated, respected and very well-compensated.


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Looking for, ages 18-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im a dominant female looking for a submissive male with all boundaries respecte.. Female 26 from Brighton, UK

Seeking for a man who is submissive type willing to learn respect and obey a dominant woman


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Looking for, ages 51-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Lover girl in search of love Female 31 from Laughton, UK

I'm caring ,kind and loyal in search of a serious partner


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Looking for, ages 22-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Love orgasms and gives orgasms Female 33 from Brighton, UK

Orgasms. Giving and receiving them. But I like to be slutted out  every once in a while.


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Looking for, ages 35-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I Im a dominant mistress whos looking for a submissive man to train for pleasu.. Female 31 from Brighton, UK

I'm 31 years old, living in the Brighton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 22 and 99.


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Am here looking for long term relationships or maybe fun Female 42 from Brighton, UK

Am very outgoing person who love to chill and have fun and see what things goes


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Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Banter is a must, sugar and spice and all things nice Female 47 from East Grinstead, UK

Not looking for anything serious, as already in a long term relationship, so searching for someone who can be a FWB. Having a massage makes me relaxed, gets the juices flowing. Slightly on the bigger side, 5ft 10.


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Looking for, ages 43-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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A Dominant who enjoy to have a faithful relationship. I am looking for one obedi.. Female 38 from Brighton, UK

I like the pussy worship,  bondage play, foot worship, I love to play kinky and I'm open to new things. All I need is a submissive male that will eat up my pussy like a greedy pig and give me much of orgasm. My main aim is to derive pleasure in so many ways that I command and demand.


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Hi we are laura &jay We are married live in Eastbourne looking for meets wit.. Couple 52, 46 from Eastbourne, UK

I'm am 52 years old and Laura is 46, threesomes are our fun with a little more time on our hands for fun we are both a busy couple so please no timewasters we can accommodate but arrangements and meets will be on our terms


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Looking for, ages 18-68. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Keen to explore desires keen to love keen to fun Female 33 from Brighton, UK

Am a self esteemed mistress with a great and good reputation to keep
Ready to explore desires with serious minded persons


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Looking for, ages 41-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Webcam

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Open couple looking for a mature woman for regular meets Open and honest no game.. Couple 42, 43 from Sidley, UK

Were a new couple but ate serious about each other but this is something we both want and both are very adventurous


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Looking for, ages 33-73. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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I love cock!! I love to ride it and have so many things done to me Couple 30, 43 from Eastbourne, UK

I have never enough no limits. I would give anything a go


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Hi we are a couple looking for a male for a threesome Couple 68, 54 from Falmer, UK

Im 5-8 12 stone grey hair but very fit into most thing and we would love you to join us for a fun night


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Strip on webcam, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves

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The magic happens when youre totally yourself. What gets you excited? What make.. Female 39 from Brighton, UK

The magic happens when you're totally yourself. What gets you excited? What makes you happy?


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Looking for, ages 42-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 38 from Brighton, UK

I'm not insearch of a perfect partner as long as you can obey me and worship my body I'm willing to accept you as mine. If you're a first times who wish to be dominated by me you're just a message away


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Switch looking to explore my Dominant side. Female 41 from Brighton, UK

Looking for one sub that is around my age and SINGLE!! I don’t get much free time So ideally you’re very local and able to accommodate.I have experience in the lifestyle but I’m new to being a Top, If all goes well and I find the right guy I would love a FLR.


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I am seeking for a serious relationship Female 43 from Brighton, UK

I am a girl with a bright and interesting life who loves to travel and my biggest journey is related to the search for sincere love. My dream is to create a strong and loving family. I am a sincere, modest and well-mannered girl who shows herself to be real. I believe that I can find a man here who will accept me for who I am.


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Looking for, ages 41-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Oral, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Im 29 years old, living in the Indianapolis region. Female 29 from Brighton, UK

I'm 29 years old, living in the Indianapolis region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40and 75


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Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys

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Exploring - lets see if theres anyone interesting to talk to :-) Female 38 from Eastbourne, UK

Curious and looking to dip my toe so to speak. Still working out what I like an potentially looking for someone to help push a few boundaries


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Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM

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Looking for a serious relationship casual dating and hook up Female 28 from Brighton, UK

Seeking for a serious relationship casual dating and causal hook up fwb


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Looking for, ages 19-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, Couples, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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a gentle loving dom seeking a sub who wants to experience his kinks and fantasie.. Female 36 from Brighton, UK

Looking for a devoted sub who is willing to do what it takes to please


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Looking for, ages 18-78. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, Body Hair, Bondage, Crossdress, Curves, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Temperature Play

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Life is sweet but bitter is there. Read profile first Female 32 from Brighton, UK

I seek a companion who is genuine, caring, and appreciates a deep, meaningful relationship. If you are a man who finds joy in shared laughter, appreciates a comforting home-cooked meal, enjoys thoughtful conversations, and values the caring touch of a devoted partner, then we may just be a perfect match. I am excited about the prospect of meeting you, and who knows? We might just write a beautiful story together. redeyeblackeyered at g meal thank you!


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Looking for, ages 36-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Impact Play, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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