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Looking for, ages 18-88.
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I'm a Dom seeking a sub to bring pleasure to and goodness but under my control when we play. Online and in real life meet, in discretion and prepared to explore what turns us both on, I long for a sub, the right sub , who I can protect , and use , bend to my will whilst fulfilling their darkest desire. I'm experienced in the introduction of D/s to novice, and happy to discuss this with the curious
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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If you take joy from seeing the other excited and enjoying them self, then it will be an amazing night!!
I love to provide pleasure but I will always make sure my needs are met before anything finishes...I have never had a bad encounter and dont expect to have one now!!
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
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I'm 45 years old, living in the London region.
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I enjoy being treated like a queen that I am, I love sexual worships. I'm seeking for a sub male that loves to be pegged by beautiful ladies and loves to eat ass and very oral.
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Looking for, ages 60-90.
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I'm into many things and would love to help explore others sexuality with them. We are all here for safe, clean fun so lets get dirty!
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Looking for, ages 40-86.
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We are conventional couple in a long term relationship, just looking for some fun.
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Looking for, ages 18-39.
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I am loving woman i love reading more books i love swimming going to beach and i will to find my lover here
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Looking for, ages 45-89.
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Hey there….Im Stella by name and single and ready to mingle
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-89.
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Looking for a casual relationship, no headaches but a lot of FUN. If you too want to give and receive without commitment or constraints, contact me
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I'm 25 years old, living in the Watford region.
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Looking for, ages 24-60.
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When I get surprised by my partner and friends. Music and swimming
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-70.
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I love to travel and experience new things. I love adventure.
I hate rude people. I hope there aren't many here.. haha
Be polite, respectful and honest, I offer the same in advance..
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Looking for, ages 20-80.
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Hey....I am Jessy by name…,I must say i am pretty open minded, affectionate, looking for an honest man who knows what it takes sharing the ups and down in a relationship.I wish i could say more now, but am not a subscribe member so i cant really chat or message twice on here but i'll be glad if u can let us continue with our conversation, send me some pics of u and i'll reply back with more pics of me, i'll be waiting for your mail.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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I would describe myself as a calm person, light as a feather, bright as the sun and very positive. I believe that life is beautiful and gives us a lot of good and bright. I am reliable and responsible, you can always rely on me and trust me with the most intimate in your life and know that everything is in good hands. I am optimistic.
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I need a strong and serious man. I need someone caring and trusting. I want to build a really strong relationship with mutuality in everything; mutual trust, understanding and respecting each other.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Most of girls dream of a handsome and rich man, but for me the most important qualities in a man are kindness, protectiveness and generosity. In my opinion, a real man will never humiliate or use violence against women. Actions always speak louder than words and a big heart is more important than a big purse.
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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I am Mistress sophia. Severe, strict and sensual Mistress. I'll take your very deepest darkest sexual desires and twist them into reality
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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"Hey there! My name is jenna ivory and I'm really interested in exploring the world of sub dom dynamics. I've always been fascinated by the power dynamics and the trust that goes into it. I'm looking to connect with a supportive and understanding community where I can learn and grow. Excited to be a part of this club and meet like-minded individuals! "
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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I'm passionate about exploring this beautiful world. I am a versatile person. I am attracted to healthy food. Things don't always work out the way I want but life is always an intrigue. I have a dream to create my own perfume collection that reflects my personality and mood. I combine a thirsty soul and an inquisitive mind, and I strive to turn every day into an opportunity for discovery and adventure.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sexual Massage, Sub

I'm 38 years old, living in the Watford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Nylons, Roleplay

I am really keen and open to all just let me know so that we can talk about it.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

I am a woman who enjoys every moment of life and those things that it offers us, I really like the beach since I was born on a beautiful island and of which I keep many beautiful memories, I love being in contact with nature, I tend to be very fun and not stress about unimportant things, I am always interested in knowing new things.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-69.
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Interests, Fetish, Sex Games, Sexual Massage, Voyeurism

Looking for that special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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