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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Essex
Well Hello . Fabulous couple looking for safe sexual playtimes with couples fe.. Dagenham, UK , 47, 38

I'm Kaz. I'm white age 40 +. My fellas names Malick he's black he's  aged 30+.
We would love to find a couple to explore.
Looking for some safe fun sexual experiences. If u fancy a meet up with us. Get in touch please xxxx

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To meet women who like sex with men. Latchingdon, UK , 70

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.

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Looking for couple to watch and watch us initially , some outdoor fun experience.. Basildon, UK , 46, 37

Voyuerism, outdoor fun , exhibitionism, BDSM, nudism, male on male,

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Dagenham, UK , 37

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

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We are a couple who want to explore with single males or other couples Basildon, UK , 43, 43

We are a couple who want to meet other couples or single males

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

Thanks.

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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Chelmsford, UK , 43

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.

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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Romford, UK , 53

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.

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I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is inc.. Romford, UK , 29

Want to know who knows the capital of every country in the world? Me.

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Sexy , attractive, open minded couple looking for the right men , women and coup.. Bishops Stortford, UK , 45, 43

Me - blonde slim but with curves in the right places
Him - atheletic and dark

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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Dagenham, UK , 47

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs.  Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men

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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Southend-on-sea, UK , 26

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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New here and to all this so seeing what it’s all about Southend-on-sea, UK , 50

I love holidays in the sun and being by the sea makes me happy

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Just here for the fun. Probably would go with whatever outcome this platform may.. Canvey Island, UK , 30

I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.

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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Canvey Island, UK , 47

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.

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Looking for something serious and fun Benfleet, UK , 36

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 36

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.

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looking for fun and the new experience Romford, UK , 40, 40

Interesting, just a couples single man’s not interesting

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cuckold couple looking for single guy Chelmsford, UK , 68, 67

we are a mature couple looking for a single guy aged 25 - 45 for 121 meets with wife would prefer regular meets

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Im 38 years old, living in the Birmingham region. Romford, UK , 39

I'm 38 years old, living in the Birmingham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Chelmsford, UK , 57

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x

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NOT 22 BUT 38!!!! Sweet Dominate woman, ready to explore those fantasies in your.. Colchester, UK , 23

Available for threesome with couples too. Don't come to me with false desire. Serious business only

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Im 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region. Rayleigh, UK , 52

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.

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