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I’m here intrested in bdsm lifestyle and also available for hook up Southend-on-sea, UK , 28

I’m so much interested in this Dominant lifestyle and love to hook up most time to check more about my fantasy Dm

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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 65

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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Hi Dominant Sadist Woman Cougar living near Romford Essex UK. Romford, UK , 53

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.

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looking for fun explore new things Bishops Strotford, UK , 30

massages touch and exploring new things ! excitment !

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NOT 22 BUT 38!!!! Sweet Dominate woman, ready to explore those fantasies in your.. Colchester, UK , 23

Available for threesome with couples too. Don't come to me with false desire. Serious business only

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 36

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.

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Goddess waiting to drain you like never before Chelmsford, UK , 25

Money excites me and makes me happy, as do gifts and holidays
You doing what i say when i say is top tier

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cuckold couple looking for single guy Chelmsford, UK , 68, 67

we are a mature couple looking for a single guy aged 25 - 45 for 121 meets with wife would prefer regular meets

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Southend-on-sea, UK , 29

Ask me anything you might want to know. Just a dm away

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Anyone in Chelmsford area want to meet up with me? Chelmsford, UK , 64, 23

Sub bi smooth chastity looking for eme..

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Im looking for something ongoing and hopes it becomes something serious and per.. Chelmsford, UK , 51

I'm Mistress Eliza and I'm looking for a lil lost kinky sub to train to become that perfect sissy slut for me

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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Heyyyy interested in new things, Southend-on-sea, UK , 39

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.

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Fun daddy, sub, top, bottom dynamic seek mfm, fmf, mfmf, kinky fun Romford, UK , 19, 43

Male and female hl fun loving couple here.
Looking for some,
Kinkyy fun fmf, mmf, mfmf, female 19. Male 43. Female bi male straight ilford, Romford or Milton Keynes area PM if interested.

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

Thanks.

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Im 30 years old, living in the Stansted region. Stansted, UK , 30

I'm 30 years old, living in the Stansted region. Not interested in hook ups. FINDOM subs only. Foot worship subs ONLY.

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34 F and 36 M looking for a guy to have a 3some with. Colchester, UK , 35, 35

Couple seeking a guy for a 3some. Discreet, no strings.

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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Dagenham, UK , 37

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Chelmsford, UK , 31

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Looking for a threesome in Southend. Nice big cock and regular sex Southend-on-sea, UK , 41

Good looking men big cocks love anal sex oral sex virginal sex

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Love bi sex....watching each other... Bj Southend-on-sea, UK , 64, 62

Very dirty couple,love bi blow jobs wanking and fucking

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Im 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Chelmsford, UK , 28

I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.

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We are a couple looking for couples females and males Romford, UK , 19, 19

F 18 m 42 seeking open-minded fun  mfmf mff mfm  east London can't host

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am MISTRESS Dominatrix, Scottish born & bred . I can be softly spoken, kind & se.. Chelmsford, UK , 37

mistress love to explore with her loyal sub....this bdsm sexual lifestyle  discreetly

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