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Hello, I’m a happy go lucky 55 year old lady, I’m looking for a dom to try new .. Female 56 from Great Burstead, UK

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Female 57 from Chelmsford, UK

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x


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I’m very horny and clingy I have a high sex drive and I will love to meet someon.. Female 40 from Benfleet, UK

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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

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To meet women who like sex with men. Female 70 from Latchingdon, UK

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.


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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Female 31 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
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Im 24 years old, living in the Romford region. Female 24 from Romford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Couple 30, 34 from Woodham Ferrers, UK

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys


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Sexy , attractive, open minded couple looking for the right men , women and coup.. Couple 45, 43 from Bishops Stortford, UK

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Female 29 from Romford, UK

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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Female 51 from Canvey Island, UK

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Im looking for something ongoing and hopes it becomes something serious and per.. Female 51 from Chelmsford, UK

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Hi a friend said this is the place I should go to look for fun Female 40 from Basildon, UK

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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Female 65 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Looking for a threesome in Southend. Nice big cock and regular sex Female 41 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman


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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Female 36 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Looking for couple to watch and watch us initially , some outdoor fun experience.. Couple 46, 37 from Basildon, UK

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34 F and 36 M looking for a guy to have a 3some with. Couple 35, 35 from Colchester, UK

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Heyyyy interested in new things, Female 39 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.


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I’m new to this site, I work really hard but need to play hard too! I’m down t.. Female 49 from Braintree, UK

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Female 29 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Well Hello . Fabulous couple looking for safe sexual playtimes with couples fe.. Couple 47, 38 from Dagenham, UK

I'm Kaz. I'm white age 40 +. My fellas names Malick he's black he's  aged 30+.
We would love to find a couple to explore.
Looking for some safe fun sexual experiences. If u fancy a meet up with us. Get in touch please xxxx


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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Female 25 from Upminster, UK

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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Im 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Female 28 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.


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