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am MISTRESS Dominatrix, Scottish born & bred . I can be softly spoken, kind & se.. Female 37 from Chelmsford, UK

mistress love to explore with her loyal sub....this bdsm sexual lifestyle  discreetly


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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Female 53 from Romford, UK

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.


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Just here for the fun. Probably would go with whatever outcome this platform may.. Female 30 from Canvey Island, UK

I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.


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Hi Dominant Sadist Woman Cougar living near Romford Essex UK. Female 53 from Romford, UK

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.


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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Female 24 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.


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I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is inc.. Female 29 from Romford, UK

Want to know who knows the capital of every country in the world? Me.


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34 F and 36 M looking for a guy to have a 3some with. Couple 35, 35 from Colchester, UK

Couple seeking a guy for a 3some. Discreet, no strings.


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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Female 47 from Dagenham, UK

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs.  Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men


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Im stella and I love meeting new people! Female 25 from Canvey, UK

I'm from canvey,UK  and people say I'm friendly So let's talk xx


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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Female 43 from Chelmsford, UK

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.


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Im 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. Female 26 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.


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my what app Is O 7 nine, five,8 six,I,7 one 3,eight. Female 51 from Stock, UK

I’m young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.


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Im 30 years old, living in the Stansted region. Female 30 from Stansted, UK

I'm 30 years old, living in the Stansted region. Not interested in hook ups. FINDOM subs only. Foot worship subs ONLY.


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We are a couple who want to explore with single males or other couples Couple 43, 43 from Basildon, UK

We are a couple who want to meet other couples or single males


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We are a couple looking for couples females and males Couple 19, 19 from Romford, UK

F 18 m 42 seeking open-minded fun  mfmf mff mfm  east London can't host


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Looking for matured minded dudes to hookup with Female 20 from Chelmsford, UK

In need of a baby girl treatment you wanna tap in let’s get freaky together


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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Female 51 from Canvey Island, UK

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life


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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Female 57 from Chelmsford, UK

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x


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looking for fun and the new experience Couple 40, 40 from Romford, UK

Interesting, just a couples single man’s not interesting


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To meet women who like sex with men. Female 70 from Latchingdon, UK

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.


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I’m here to dominate, who wants to be my sub Female 27 from Romford, UK

Come let mistress fulfill your desires , if you’re not prepared to submit then walk on , I’m not looking for time wasters. If you’d like my attention you need to be specific and prove yourself .


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I am an attentive lover, always looking to satisfy all of my partner’s needs, so.. Female 27 from Southend-on-sea, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Goddess waiting to drain you like never before Female 25 from Chelmsford, UK

Money excites me and makes me happy, as do gifts and holidays
You doing what i say when i say is top tier


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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Female 48 from Southend-on-sea, UK

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person


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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Female 31 from Chelmsford, UK

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.


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