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I want somebody who will let me run all over them Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

Things that get me excited is someone who obeys and does what they are told at all times be a good boy .

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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)

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Im Beth, Open minded and down for some fun Female 29 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm imperfect, down to earth.. I'm fun to be with, like vodka sometimes

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I am looking for someone who is honest and not into head games. Female 29 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 85.

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I love to be taken out
I can meet up
I love you if you are real ♥️
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Just want to have fun and friends with benefits. I can give you all the pleasure.. Female 27 from California City California, USA

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True Love is something that I believe you wont have to search for, itll just h.. Female 38 from California City California, USA

I am a true romantic woman and believe that there is something as a soul mate, but they are not easy to found, out of millions of people those 2 souls must meet by chance and circumstance.

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Slim beauty looking to fulfill your fantasy Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

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Hello here I am single and I am looking for a serious relationship and a man who.. Female 37 from California City California, USA

Well i am single and I will be happy to have a man who is caring

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I’m an alpha dominant woman seeing for a loyal and trustworthy submissive male Female 31 from Sunnyvale California, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the California City region. Female 37 from California City California, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 80.

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I would like my man to be kind, tender and romantic. I would also like him to ha.. Female 44 from San Jose California, USA

I am a lady who likes to give joy and happiness to people around me. I am an active person, but also like calm and romantic evenings, good company and walks in nature. I love to appreciate each moment of my life.

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Love to make new friends ❤️love outdoors sometimes Female 38 from Penngrove California, USA

I’m a very good person and love outside and love to make friends

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I’m here for fun and meet up , will like to meet up Female 25 from Universal City California, USA

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Im 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. Female 43 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. I'm interested in meeting a submissive sub aged between 40 and 90.

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Lets give this a try, Im honest, caring and loving Female 44 from Atherton California, USA

I am cheerful, honest whom wants a bright future, I am very loving and caring, I have a huge heart. I like to cuddle a lot

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I’m here seeking for something special Female 38 from Santa Cruz California, USA

I’m here seeking for something serious, With no games nor drama

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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Hey, I’m new here and I am open to anything.. Talk to me I want to make some new.. Female 41 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I am a calm and affectionate, very reliable and quite confident, sincere and reasonable, creative and tolerant lady. I am caring, tender, emotional but at the same time purposeful and hard-working. I enjoy my job. I'm really gentle, caring and passionate when I fall in love. I wish to find a right person, my second half to share our lives, feelings and create a loving and solid relationship.

Straight

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Married and looking for hookups outside marriage. Female 33 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.

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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.

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Looking for a long term relationship Female 45 from San Francisco California, USA

I am serious and i want to love and to be loved again. I don't joke about stuff like this when feelings are involved,or play any head games.i am very serious, at the beginning i was just not sure about the distance but you have changed my mind. i want someone to spend time with, doing things together, share everything together and more. I just want one man, in my life, one I can love, and cherish, and be with. Share my sorrows, and my happiness. My good times and bad, would hope he would share the same with me.

Straight

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I’m new here seeking for my soul mate and a long time relationship with a honest.. Female 43 from California City California, USA

I’m seeking for my soul mate and a long time relationship with a honest person who is ready to love

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Looking for a connection and someone to enjoy my time with. Female 39 from Campbell California, USA

Looking to explore and have some fun with someone.

Bicurious

Looking for, ages 35-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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