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Not that innocent as I look, just try and see California City California, USA , 27

Serious minded person, open to everyone
I'm a lover of fun

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Im 33 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Sacramento California, USA , 34

I’m a pretty girl with all the good vibes you want

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Looking for consistency, consideration, and aftercare. Modesto California, USA , 42

Still trying to figure this one out. Learning, exploring l, and trying new things.

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Im a single woman looking for that one man!! I can be naughty if you can bring .. California City California, USA , 37

I am fun loving, great sense of humor.  Always make fitness and healthy eating a priority, but love to indulge with a great pizza and sundae!  Kayaking and hiking are so fun and I love anything outdoors. Staying in and cooking together, watching a movie and cuddling is something I look forward to doing with you!   Looking for someone who also makes fitness and health a priority, loves the outdoors, loves to laugh and have fun..

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Down to earth, looking for what I really want here Modesto California, USA , 38

Very free spirited, down to earth, humble and can be nast…y

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Santa Clara California, USA , 48

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?

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We all know what you’re here for San Francisco California, USA , 34

I’m a Goddess, I want to have all the fun and none of the consequences… Tell me what’s on your mind…. Findom whisperer

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Im here new on here but am looking for LTR California City California, USA , 41

I am outgoing, Inquisitive and independent. I am a lover of a good conversation, Good drinks and long walks on the beach. Laugther is a priority. My humor is some mix of nerdy and sarcastic. I

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Im 43 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. Santa Clara California, USA , 43

I am a fun , romantic and calm woman . I am an active and friendly woman and my friends say that I am always fun . I am a gentle woman and I have a good heart . I always try to help those who need it . I love traveling and I love cooking . I like quiet walks in nature . Loyalty , honesty, and respect for each other are important to me in a relationship . I am a woman with high family values and I want to share my life with one man forever . On a dating site I want to meet a man who will show me love and tenderness every day and I will make this man the happiest in the world .

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Im 39 years old, living in the California City region. California City California, USA , 40

I am very demanding to myself and I always try my best at any item of my life. I think we were sent to the earth to make it more beautiful. That is why I always kind to people and I treat them the way I would like them to treat me. I am a passionate and at the same time romantic nature. I really want to feel like a woman, a loving and desirable woman.

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I am looking for an older special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. San Francisco California, USA , 30

BDSM is my passion and carrier and it colors my entire worldview. I believe in taking rewarding, measured risks and connecting deeply and authentically with people

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Looking to find that one freaky man i can spend the rest of my life with. Santa Clara California, USA , 44

Im a single woman with no partner and very passionate and erotic I enjoy having as much fun as I can and i want to meet the same person

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Hey, Lets chat and see where this will lead too San Francisco California, USA , 34

Love going to the beach and love going out to high on whiskey

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I LOVE TO MAKE EVERYONE AROUND ME TO SMILE THAT WHY I LOVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY.. Sacramento California, USA , 51

I am good looking lol, extremely romantic and passionate. Will be your best friend. I exercise daily. I communicate like a canary and don't use foul language. I am sincere and responsible....I am an excellent cook and love good wine. I am a neat freak. I'll dance on the beach with you.

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Welcome and Kneel before Mistress Vicky Daly City California, USA , 37

I'm 37 years old, living in the Daly City region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person, sub or a man aged between 18 and 90.I'm Asian with a Average body shape Blonde hairI drink socially I don't smoke

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Am here looking for honest man Union City California, USA , 34

Am Linda Smith from West Virginia USA single without know  never been married before

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I am hoping to meet a good and calm man to have some more conversations with to .. California City California, USA , 45

I am jovial lady who is a lover of pet. I like going to the beach for fun.

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I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years,its something i practice outside my va.. Santa Clara California, USA , 33

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to

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Im 28 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region. California Hot Springs California, USA , 28

I'm 28 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 90.

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Hi there , Im living in the Dallas Area. Fremont California, USA , 46

I'm open to new experiences . I would love to learn on here too...

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Looking for that special man who is ready to love and beloved San Francisco California, USA , 45

I am 45 years older single, never married,I am an open minded woman with a heart of gold who love life to it’s fullest

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I am open minded person looking for fun. California City California, USA , 27

I love to travel more often , I love outdoor stuff like surfing and hiking.

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A BEAUTIFUL MISS WANTS TO EXPLORE HER FANTASIES Fremont California, USA , 34

I’ve got a lot of fantasies I will love to explore…pegging and so on

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I expect loyalty and obedience ;) San Mateo California, USA , 18

I like actions over words. Show me don’t tell me how bad you want me

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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. San Francisco California, USA , 30

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.

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