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Im an experienced dominant female seeking submissive ones for pleasure. San Jose California, USA , 30

I'm a kinky female with a lot of experience as a dom. I enjoy a lot of fantasies and definitely open to trying new kinks and subs

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Dominant lady looking for a sub Atherton California, USA , 42

I enjoy giving out instructions and I get pleasure from seeing them executed perfectly. Subs that do this get rewarded and pleasured

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Im 44 years old, living in the Santa Rosa region. Santa Rosa California, USA , 44

We can talk more when youre really interested in getting to know me better

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I am dominant mistress seeking for a male submissive to own is collar as mine an.. San Francisco California, USA , 41

I'm 41 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.

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I have been a mistress for more than 15 years now and I am an active member of a.. California City California, USA , 39

I'm experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that¡¯s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!

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Im 39 years old, living in the San Francisco region. San Francisco California, USA , 40

I am a simple single woman looking for fun and pleasure.

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I’m looking forward to meet a honest and caring sissy to serve, trained and plea.. San Francisco California, USA , 31

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable'  You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy  your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples  depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress

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Rocking the fine line between “classy” and “I can chug a whole soda in 10 second.. San Francisco California, USA , 27

Ever wanted to date a real-life ninja? Now’s your chance. Just kiddding. Or am I?

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Im 41 years old, living in the Hollister region. Hollister California, USA , 41

I'm 41 years old, living in the Hollister region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.

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If you are truly here for the lifestyle then am for you Pasadena California, USA , 43

I only attend closely to my studs sissy’s or sluts you want my attention then be one

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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING A OBEDIENT SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN Santa Clara California, USA , 32

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood , or pain.

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Im 39 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Sacramento California, USA , 40

I'm 39 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 46 and 90.

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Im down for anything fun just hit me up, DOM and SUB. You can always hit me up .. Atwater California, USA , 25

I'm down for anything fun just hit me up,
DOM and SUB. You can always hit me up
for anything I'm available.

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Becoming my devoted cash vessel is your life purpose It’s a big turn-on knowing.. San Francisco California, USA , 31

Whatever Mistress says goes. I love a good boy who is a attentive listener. Do as you’re told. It makes me happy when you are eager and enthusiastic about serving and spoiling me. I might even let you worship my feet.

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Im here looking for my soul mate and not here to play games like some women do... California City California, USA , 38

I want to fall in love for all the right reasons and I trust thought this might be a good way to get started in finding my life partner. I have been alone and single most of my life.

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We are here for a good time not along time trying something different new to thi.. Sacramento California, USA , 33, 32

Me and my wife are tryna inter a exclusive and private life style just looking for the right one

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A friend, girlfriend, lover. . . wife. . . . i am looking for long term relati.. Vallejo California, USA , 38

i am looking for long term relationship...A friend, girlfriend, lover...wife..?

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Text me Now! If you would love to explore your kinky side with Mistress. Belmont California, USA , 35

I’m a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized

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I am active lady, kind, sympathetic, open, cheerful, and purposeful. I dont lik.. San Mateo California, USA , 45

I am young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.

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I’m me honest trustworthy and understanding and wish I’m also looking for San Francisco California, USA , 50

I will love to try something new and different I’m just as good as you wanted just be yourself

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I want to look for a life partner who lives a healthy life style. It would be gr.. San Jose California, USA , 34

Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it. I have my own business. I love new experiences and new challenges. I am sure I will also give you a lot of surprises when you get to be together with me. Do you think I am a type of your lady? Come and get to know

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I aim to please on my knees. I like a *firm hand* to put and keep me in my place.. Walnut Creek California, USA , 43

What makes me happy? A big dick and honesty..Equal attention to all 3 holes. Having my nipples sucked. Strength to lift all 160lbs of me and authentic aggression..(no longer married and do not have or want offspring)If I cannot see your face I cannot respond

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Couple looking for a women for a threesome encounter only Sacramento California, USA , 51, 54

We are a easy going couple looking for new experiences to explore. Discreet no strings attached.

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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. San Francisco California, USA , 40

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.

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Learning My Role as a submissive French Camp California, USA , 46

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.

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