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Mistress is willing to teach you everything you need to know about this lifestyl.. Union City California, USA , 28

Hey subbie, I'm looking for someone who's as passionate and adventurous as I am. I can't wait to get to know you better. Let's explore our kinky desires together. Are you willing to submit to me

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Hi there. Im Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years . I gu.. Antelope California, USA , 48, 53

Hi there. I'm Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years,  I am bi/pan sexual and enjoy the time i can have with a woman, my husband only wants me to be happy. We are fairly new to this as well. All we would want is for you to be comfortable. We would love to get to know you better and maybe enjoy an evening together.
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Need partner: 35 - 58 years old I am not looking for a prince from fairytale. Mo.. Fremont California, USA , 41

But I dream about loving family and faithful relationships. I hope this best dating site will help me in this. Hope to hear from you to share our thoughts and ideas. What is your biggest dream in life? Maybe you want a Ukraine girl to become your wife?

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Im single and new member Union City California, USA , 46

looking at me, you probably think 'escort, prostitution or lesbian, how can she be lonely and look for a man?' Well, you almost guessed it, I'm all taken together LOL, a joke! this is the whole essence of the problem of my search for a husband, I have always been perceived as another person, I am not what you see in the picture, I have something more important than my beautiful body parts, this is my soul! although I can and want to be the best escort for my husband LOL oh yeah. I would like you not only to stare at my tits, but also to look into my eyes sometimes, I appreciate that in men if anything, I don't need a millionaire man, I will be happy with a man with his care and love and most importantly in his submission to my desires and fantasies, spiritual values and things are much more important than material ones.

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I believe love still exist. Am a down to earth lady who seeks for a man with a g.. Santa Rosa California, USA , 48

Having a right partner and doing all things together makes me happy

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Im a dominant woman who derives pleasure beyond imagination with sub. San Francisco California, USA , 35

I'm looking for that distinct older one who will relight the blaze of passion and desire that have been quenched, someone i can confide in and ready to live the bdsm kinky Lifestyle with

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This mistress is not here to waste time only wants an understanding mature slave to train into BDSM lifestyle

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Im 28 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region. California Hot Springs California, USA , 28

I'm 28 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 90.

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I enjoy exploring mutual erotic pleasure in regards to Discipline Pasadena California, USA , 46

I’ve been a Dom for quite some years now
I’m an adventurous and a Single .
Looking forward to owning a sub exploring fetish kinks.

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Mistress looking for a submissive male to explore his submissive side.I need a o.. Sacramento California, USA , 42

Having completed control over a submissive male. Who will obey commands without hesitation.
The one that I'm in complete control of the submissive male and that his heart Body and Soul belongs to me and also willing to show appreciation and commitment when needed .!!

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Fun loving and looking to have some fun Citrus Heights California, USA , 47, 36

Hate talking about myself ask any questions and I’ll answer them

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Do you believe that each person has a fire in their soul. Well, my inner fire ca.. San Francisco California, USA , 31

I am here to find a man with whom we will have a mutual understanding and the same goals in life. With whom we can enjoy something fantasy and lifestyle, enjoy something each day of life and expand our limitations.

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I care.I take charge to provide a haven for pleasure and fantasies. San Jose California, USA , 35

I love travelling,reading, swimming and having nice time with my sub

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Im a good communicator and believe that trust and respect are essential in any .. Oakland California, USA , 40

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.

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I’m a dominant one looking for a submissive one Victorville California, USA , 41

A submissive one ready to serve my feet as as possible

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Im 47 years old, living in the Columbus region. Atherton California, USA , 47

I'm 47 years old, living in the Columbus region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.

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Mistress is an experienced and skilled Dominatrix with a passion for exploring t.. Valley Village California, USA , 42

With a dominant nature that radiates confidence and control, she is well-versed in the art of BDSM and takes pride in creating immersive and transformative experiences for her submissives.

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fun loving lady who loves to explore new things. I am looking for a fun loving s.. California City California, USA , 64

I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always I love to Train my submissive so if you’re new let’s get started.

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Im 48 years old, living in the California City California City California, USA , 48

I'm 48 years old, living in California I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Average body shape Blonde hairI drink socially I don't smoke

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Hello handsome am ready to mingle San Francisco California, USA , 39

I am an extremely open, emotional, cheerful and persistent person. I am very sociable, active, tender-hearted, caring and passionate. I live guided with my own principles and I am open to new experiences and new feelings. I am able to love unconditionally and faithfully. I love beauty and don't like monotony. I like style, life rhythm and intelligence.

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Welcome to My world, the world of Femdom. The world in which men exist only to .. San Jose California, USA , 32

Welcome to My world, the world of Femdom.
The world in which men exist only to satisfy My desires..

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I’m merry I Love someone honest as well Union City California, USA , 38

I’m merry 37 years old I have one baby girl I live alone my husband passed away for three years now I’m looking for someone honest

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Single hoping to meet my dream man on here and i also know that nothing good com.. Atherton California, USA , 45

Everything is our hands, this is why we should not give up - this phrase characterizes me in the best way. I believe that everything is possible, it goes about our efforts and inner strength. As you might have understood already - I am a purposeful, responsible and optimistic lady. At the same time I am kind and caring, compassionate, romantic. I am a big humanist. I am too much sincere and too trustful to people. I believe that a lady should be modest, smart and feminine! I know that all these qualities are in me!

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Im a single woman looking for that one man!! I can be naughty if you can bring .. California City California, USA , 37

I am fun loving, great sense of humor.  Always make fitness and healthy eating a priority, but love to indulge with a great pizza and sundae!  Kayaking and hiking are so fun and I love anything outdoors. Staying in and cooking together, watching a movie and cuddling is something I look forward to doing with you!   Looking for someone who also makes fitness and health a priority, loves the outdoors, loves to laugh and have fun..

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I am Misstress Iva, lovely to meet you California City California, USA , 32

Everything excites me, but knowing I will be your mistress excites me even more

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