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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Iowa
I love to talk about my animals and can be really shy at first.

You will not want to leave MY world once you're in it. I Do Sensual Domination. I Believe in Really 'Listening' to My submissive, Feelings are in big play. I'm Passionate and, Loving/Caring. I will listen to whatever you needs/feels that is Important. I love that I have you as my sub Under Me. Don't hesitate to DM me.


My love for coffee borders on obsession. Let’s meet for a latte and unravel the universe!

New connections, sensual energies, laughs, fun, open minded people, confidence, boobies, depth, common interest

I'm 38 years old, living in the Minnesota Lake region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 71.I'm White / Caucasian with a Average body shape Dark brown hairI drink socially I don't smokeI will travel for hookups

I'm 31 years old, living in the Denver region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.

I am a bright, kind girl with a strong heart. I am tired of endless searches and hope to find my partner soon. I can also say that I am a romantic person and I love to surprise my man.

I'm willing to teach and explore this lifestyle with a submissive male who is ready to satisfy his mistress.

before You are lucky, I am a patient mistress and I don't wish everything immediately. So I know what to do. Collar and gag ball are part of the play, I think you should try them. Collar with rings is good for plays with cords...

A man should be a good person who maintains a warm and close relationship with his parents, brothers, sisters. I'm looking for an educated, decent, friendly man who can be attentive to my desires, generous, someone who also really dreams of creating his own family.

l am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to dominate.

I have always desired for a nice and lovely submissive to serve me as he would rekindle the flame of passion that seem to have been put off in my previous relationships in this lifestyle

I am very hardworking and independent and hoping to meet the Man to fuck me and make enjoy the beauty of life

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.I am also a key holder (because that is what you need) for guys who are not local or don’t have other qualifications.You can tell that I am serious, and you will respond to show that you are serious!

It take sec to make a good friend that last a lifetime

I'm 39 years old, living in the Kansas City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.

I am open minded and open to a lot of things I consider myself an adventurer so message me if you’d like to take life’s journey with me

We want to do something fun and new. Or not new. If you want to with us. Let us know

My name is Mary,I'm new here searching for the right honest man who's ready to love and beloved.I work as a Veterniary Doctor giving treatment to animals and care for homeless animals.

Older man (no trans or non-binary, sorry.) 50-89 range, experienced, employed, dad-bod or in-shape -- not super picky about looks, but I do at minimum want to be initially attracted, taller than me, good hygiene, employed, okay with going slow when needed and teaching, fun personality, okay with a friendship/rapport outside of sex, able to host or open to hotels (i am unable to host).

I’m a very energetic, sexy, well experienced and calm person.. Born into the lifestyle and want to train someone from what I’ve learned from my parents

I'm 46 years old, living in the Nevada region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 99.

A submissive boy, that is willing to eat me out till I got bored, Yes It's true I'm naughtier than I look, certainly I deserve so much pleasure from a worth sub.

I'm 41 years old, living in the Arizona City region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 45 and 91.

Active member locations
- Ottumwa Iowa /
- Alden Iowa /
- Knoxville Iowa /
- Waukee Iowa /
- Guthrie Center Iowa /
- Casey Iowa /
- Mystic Iowa /
- Cedar Falls Iowa /
- Homestead Iowa /
- Ackworth Iowa /
- State Center Iowa /
- Grinnell Iowa /
- Mason City Iowa /
- Huxley Iowa /
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