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Trying to find new sub that will live the lifestyle with me Female 36 from Olympia Washington, USA

I like traveling trying new things with sub if they want I like teaching newbies in this lifestyle and I am looking for a long term relationship,  I have this thing for older men.


Straight

Looking for, ages 53-77. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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We are a couple that is happily married, but needs a spark especially for the wi.. Couple 54, 54 from Salem Oregon, USA

We enjoy the outdoors, we like to play disc golf. Go camping. Go hiking another types of activities outside. We also like to travel. We are looking for a couple or single man or woman that we could get to know. Have fun. Get it out of the bedroom and go do things just on a whim.


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SEEKING A OWNER READY TO OWN ME AND TRAIN ME Female 36 from Tacoma Washington, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Tacoma region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 24 and 89.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Petite body shape Blonde hair
I drink socially I don't smoke
I will travel for hookups


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 24-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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Hello, I am very serious about dominating. You seem like a potential sub to a mi.. Female 43 from Tillamook Oregon, USA

I am fun loving, and carefree. I like all sports, especially basketball. I like taking my dog for walks. I enjoy going to the movies, going to sporting events or just hanging watching Netflix. I love submissive men, newbies,stone age.... as long as you are mature and true as you claim to be.I hate  game players,BEWARE


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Tickle Play

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I am looking for someone special, someone who can surprise me every day as if it.. Female 48 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am very kind and honest woman who values sincerity and sociability. I am resilient, optimistic I've got a good sense of humor. I like having a rest close to nature in mountains or near the sea. I prefer communication with people more, than loneliness.


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hi :) i’m looking to try new things ! Female 19 from Portland Oregon, USA

I’m really interested in all this stuff, but I’ve never tried it and i’m really excited to find out more!


Straight

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Im Jane, a very dominant woman with a lot of fantasies Female 35 from Seattle Washington, USA

I seek a loyal and submissive man wanting to explore and discover himself


Straight

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Am looking for the right person to start a new relationship with and can lead to.. Female 39 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am a confident woman who came here to find her happiness. I have a great desire for a real meeting and only for this purpose I am looking for a man on this dating site. As for me, this is the best of all dating sites and I think that it will definitely help me find my happiness. I am not afraid that I will have a real meeting, this is my great goal here


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Im Radiant and Approachable, a captivating woman with a magnetic charm and a f.. Female 45 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

a moments of shared pleasure, I find delight in adventure, and the beauty of simple pleasures.
Crazy thoughts and fantasies


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Im 40 years old, living in the Hillsboro region. Female 40 from Hillsboro Oregon, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the Hillsboro region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 80.


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Im 34 years old, single pretty dominant lady Female 34 from Arlington Washington, USA

I'm 34 years old,interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 41 and 69.I'm with a Big and beautiful body shape


Bisexual

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Looking for that good man to make me smile Female 38 from Hillsboro Oregon, USA

Calm girl who is always smiling to the lucky man who gonna win my heart


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Sex Games, Sex Toys

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I’m here for fun if you are interested you can text me Female 42 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I’m here for fun if you are interested you can text me


Straight

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I’m looking to meet a serious minded male that understands what it means to serv.. Female 33 from Seattle Washington, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


Straight

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Im 31 years old, living in Vancouver. Female 31 from Vancouver Washington, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Vancouver. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 86.


Straight

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Im 51 years old, living in the Seattle region. Female 52 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm 51 years old, living in the Seattle region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.


Straight

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Beautiful, sexy dominatrix looking for an older submissive. Female 37 from Salem Oregon, USA

Hmmmm.... More about me? Well, i am a very beautiful, dommiinannt woman. I love being in charge, so if you're a man who loves being domiinantt as well, i guess i'm not the one for you. I need to be very discreet because of my vanilla life, hence the absence of a photo. But if we are a match, i can share one privately. Trust me when i say i'm sexxy... If you wish to know more, send me a message.


Straight

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Im ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Lets explore and enjo.. Female 31 from Edmonds Washington, USA

I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man


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Gallant and elegant..open to meeting with you! Female 26 from Colville Washington, USA

Howdy friends!!l gets excited when you are less proud of yourself.


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Seriously looking for the right man on here Female 46 from Portland Oregon, USA

Briefly about me, I am that unique person who can find a way out of any situation. I can find an approach to any person and this is true, it is not about duplicity, but about the sincerity that people feel. I want to say something very important about myself. I am a lady who does not wait for the perfect moment. I seize the moment and make it perfect. So, if you don't like to waste time and you need someone who will act, then you know how to find me. I like enjoying time with friends and family.


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Looking for, ages 48-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I’m open to anything, I’m a mistress Female 25 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the Arizona City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 72.


Straight

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Im 44 years old, living in the Tacoma region. Female 44 from Tacoma Washington, USA

I'm 44 years old, living in the Tacoma region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 90.


Straight

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Married and looking for hookups outside marriage. Female 32 from Vancouver Washington, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.


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Everything fun is fun. I need you to be forward with what makes you get excited. Female 28 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I’m fun. I like to do everything fun. Silence is my biggest turn off.


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Hey slut am mistress and i know you want to be owned and serve a real Mistress .. Female 35 from Seattle Washington, USA

I have a lot of activities, slut I see you are a sissy and you will like to be feminized and dress to please Me and do as I says.


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