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I just looking for a nice conversation at the moment and a good connection and s.. Female 38 from Seattle Washington, USA

Loving, honest, naughty, kinky and fun to be with..


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I’m here for serious relationship and wants to find someone soon. I’m open for a.. Female 48 from Seattle Washington, USA

I love a bit outing stuffs, and I love to have new friends


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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 43 from Marysville Washington, USA

I am very open and really interested in serious and worthy one who knows that their rightful place is under my feet, to worship my body, ass and feet.


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Im 44 years old, living in the Oregon City region. Female 44 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I am a communicative and open-minded person. I can easily accommodate different people. I cannot only listen but hear. At the same time I have a pronounced personality and personal point of view on everything. I am an ideal subordinate, but creative and independent enough to make my life full and interesting.


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Im 46 years old, living in the Hillsboro region. Female 46 from Hillsboro Oregon, USA

traveling alone and sometimes i  do travel with my mom, when we are leaving Send me interested


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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. So, you.. Female 31 from Seattle Washington, USA

As you may have seen on My profile on the site, I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way.


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I’m single .im loving ,caring and very passionate.Have a good sense of humor an.. Female 36 from Tacoma Washington, USA

Looking for friendship and maybe more .I don’t just sleep around .I have standards but also like to make sure I have chemistry with someone before I go there ,I am recently out of a long term relationship and am just getting back out there and see how it goes first ,this is all new to me and it will be very glad if we could take the next step .


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Looking to meet a well behaved male partner,whom we can navigate the world of ki.. Female 42 from Tacoma Washington, USA

I'm all about the thrills in this lifestyle,lets explore together and make my time on here worth it.


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Sexy older woman tired of being alone Female 73 from University Place Washington, USA

Looking for a friend that enjoys spending time with me. I am a Christian woman that still would like a nice shoulder to lean on, someone who will give me a back rub and wants one in turn.I lost my husband in December and am moving back to Tacoma Washington mid October.  I am now 8 years older than when I first posted this.  I  don't move as well now but am still active.


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Financial dom looking for an honest, trustworthy, truthful, loyal and opened min.. Female 29 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm looking for an honest, trustworthy, truthful, loyal, straight forward and opened minded person who wants to submit himself to me because I'm worthy of him service, I'm looking for long term relati[...]


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Single Im on here looking for a long term and serious relationship Female 37 from Dallas Oregon, USA

I have been single for 5 years now i want a relationship that would lead to marriage


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Fun couple looking to spice up our relationship here and there. We are new to th.. Couple 38, 24 from Sammamish Washington, USA

We are naturally happy go lucky but our family definitely makes us happy. Making new friends and trying new things also gets us very excited


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I am a very sociable, kind, punctual and responsible person. I am very purposefu.. Female 30 from Seattle Washington, USA

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Hi! Here looking to meet some openly fun people. Couple 38, 28 from Seattle Washington, USA

We would really love to find a bi female that enjoys the fun that we do.


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Im goddess princess mistress marie Female 36 from Seattle Washington, USA

I like exploring with people. Finding out what sensations they enjoy, what narratives are going on in their heads, & how we can connect those things to create a scene that makes you feel how you want to feel, satisfying my desires is the only purpose you serve


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Very interesting and wonderful Female 41 from Marysville Washington, USA

Single never been married before with no kids and want to meet a kind and wonderful to start a new life with him


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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO COLLAR. Female 32 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm 31 years old, living in the Seattle region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 99.


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Divorced 55 year old female sub and painslut Female 56 from Puyallup Washington, USA

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The right type of sexy slim , Full of sweetness ⭐❤️ Female 27 from Seattle Washington, USA

I love real and naughty people,always want a nice time, and looking to catch some fun and see what happens next☺️


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New to this... excited to have new experiences Female 42 from Tacoma Washington, USA

Being told when to cum turns me on. Being made to have multiple orgasms is what makes me happy.


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I’m single .im loving ,caring and very passionate.Have a good sense of humor and.. Female 42 from Seattle Washington, USA

I'm 37years old, living in the Oklahoma City region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 90. ##


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I just looking for a nice conversation at the moment and a good connection and s.. Female 39 from Seattle Washington, USA

Fun, caring, kinky, loving and good sense of humor.


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Travel aficionado and worse Italian cook …. . Lol Cruises, fishing, long road.. Female 41 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I'm here mainly for a good, honest online relationship and I'll do all I can to live up to your expectations, within reason. If you contact me and ask about what I have said here, I'll gladly talk about them. I'm willing to be the kind of honest friend that you don't have to hesitate about whatever you want to say. Please do. We are all equal
Thanks and I hope to hear back from anyone who likes to communicate, laugh, and enjoy being someone's pen pal


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I’m a loving and caring person Txt me let have some fun Female 52 from Hillsboro Oregon, USA

I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets. I am comfortable in jeans or a nice english suit


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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 27 from Oregon City Oregon, USA

I go by Nora, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in Brisbane, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.


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