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am a professional businesswoman
Living the alternate bdsm lifestyle and being dominant over a subordinate older male is really what interest me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I am proud of who I am and have become in our community. I live and breathe the lifestyle with a passion. I need my kink, I need to be able to train and teach my submissives and they are my number one priority.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-79.
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Interests, BDSM

I'm 37 years old, living in the Wisconsin Rapids region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 82.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-82.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I'm 49 years old, living in the Hudson region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 81.
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-81.
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Interests, Mature, Sub

I urge you all today, especially today during these times of chaos and war, to love yourself without reservations and to love each other without restraint. Unless you're into leather.
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-75.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with and I never get angry also not interested in someone that is. Having past events shape your life is one thing, carrying the past as a burden that sits heavily upon your shoulders is not the way i view life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, Sexual Massage

I love the bond of being able to give complete control and trust to my dom. I’ve only explored wax play a couple of times but it is one of my favorite things to do.
Straight
Looking for, ages 31-47.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sub

Let's embark on a journey of flirtation, laughter, and stolen glances, where every moment feels like a stolen kiss waiting to happen. Are you ready to turn up the heat and see where this irresistible connection takes us?
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I look forward to someone who is honest and sincere to himself, you know the saying, charity begins at home
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-61.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I am a woman whonis very humble and very loving and caring
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction

Living out fantasies you have been bashed for having, your fetishes that make you feel dirty, come into Venus, no fetish is too weird but rather lived and explored to the highest gratification do you want to feel what it's like to worship and serve a true goddess with years of experience , who is tender enough to guide you, but firm enough to put you in your place ?welcome to my world...welcome to Venus.…the island of pleasure...awaken your desires and be true to yourself
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-84.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

looking for sub to train to serve this mistress pussy with loyalty
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-75.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Come let’s explore my kinky world and make memories together
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-64.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Once we begin texting i'll tell you everything..i'm a simple girl who is ready for something new
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-88.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples

I hope to meet the man who will change my life and let me change his. Who wants happiness and to be happy. I hope he will look in my eyes and read everything there. I don't like to talk too much. I like body language, smiles, touches, like to show how I feel. Words will fade from your memory, touches will stay with you forever.
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

am danielle by name a widow am here looking for the rightman of my choice so we can spend the rest of my life as couples
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-87.
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Interests,

I'm 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

What makes me happy is a strong confident man who knows what he wants and knows how to give a woman what she wants and wants to explore and figure out what turns me on.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

I love loyalty a lot and full commitment then I will take you to the upper session , dungeon training , wildlife session
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-86.
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Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Pegging, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

Your guide to exploring the pleasures of this lifestyle, I have the patience to train and teach new subs into diligent service, passion filled session and pain where needed and tolerated Let's dive into the world where no fetish is to weird or dirty , I will bring each one to a reality for you
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

I like feminization, bondage, charity, she-male, parties /lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, a lot of thing and not here for blue or pain
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

39 years, educated, articulate, tall, great shape, work out regularly, average build, safe, sane, healthy, ddf, fun.
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-71.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

My character is multifaceted. Depending on life situations, I can be weak or strong, let go of the situation or stand up for myself. In general, I am gentle and housewifely, kind, not prone to conflicts, with a sense of humor and justice.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Pegging

Active member locations
- Buffalo Minnesota /
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