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Mistress seeking to be pleased Female 43 from Richmond Virginia, USA

Mistress is looking for a long term relationship. A sub willing and ready to please mistress


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Im 36 years old, living in the Canada region. Female 36 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Canada region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 88.


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Sick and tired of being single, looking for ride or die to enjoy the nympho sex .. Female 42 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

Growing up in a traditional and loving family taught me to cherish life. I'm full of energy and enjoy every moment. But I'm not looking for something temporary; I want a real and lasting relationship. I am passionate and would like to show this side of me to someone special. I can surprise you more than you may ever imagine. Staying healthy is important to me because it makes life better. Happiness, to me, is found in simple joys. I strongly believe in true love and making sacrifices for the one you love.


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Seeking a genuine connection for a lifelong journey. Female 49 from Columbia South Carolina, USA

I'm 49 years old, living in the Columbia region. I'm passionate about connecting with new people and creating memorable experiences together. Travel enthusiast looking to explore new destinations and cultures. Let's embark on exciting adventures and make meaningful connections.


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Im 42 years old, living in the Greenville region. Female 42 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

I'm 42 years old, living in the Greenville region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 71.


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I am a dom looking for a submissive Female 31 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

like feminization, boy,  shemales,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.


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Im pretty new to the dating scene and looking forward to making a genuine conne.. Female 50 from Cleveland North Carolina, USA

I'm pretty new to the dating scene and looking forward to making a genuine connection here too..


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Im an alpha dominant woman seeking for a loyal and submissive male Female 38 from Denver North Carolina, USA

A goddess seeking for a submissive male to worship my body and feet


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I am looking for honesty faithfulness loyalty a big heart caring. Female 33 from Germanton North Carolina, USA

Lets have some good time togetherI am looking for honesty faithfulness loyalty a big heart caring.


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Hey Im here looking for loyal and honest sub to serve 100% Female 31 from Gaston South Carolina, USA

I'm simply simple and loving when you're so honest with me


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I don’t understand where life got the audacity to keep screwing me, I never sign.. Female 34 from Pinebluff North Carolina, USA

Relationships: Communication, loyalty, trust, maturity, respect.
Hobbies: Music,  nature, art, anything with water, and woodworking,


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I am a widow, I need someone in my life. I like trying new things, Female 60 from Critz Virginia, USA

I like trying new things and I like long walks on the beach, old movies and being romanced


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SEARCHING FOR LOVE , AND FUN AND A HAPPY Female 35 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

watching movies , going for fishing and hiking , .


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Im also seeking a serious long term relationship and more. My future beloved ma.. Female 38 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

Alright well I'm also seeking a serious long term relationship and more. My future beloved man should be conscientious and decent, good matured and honest. I want him to become my best friend and support in everything and everywhere. It would be great to get much from my future husband but be sure that I am able to give much more.


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I am new to this platform seeking for a relationship that will lead us to marria.. Female 39 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Charlotte region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 99.


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Always have faith in yourself never give up on anything youre doing work hard t.. Female 45 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm Sally By name looking for a matured gentleman to know more about each other and see where it properly lead us to, Anyone interested can leave a message i will reply as soon as possible.


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Ready for a one night with someone good Female 28 from Cambridge Maryland, USA

Happyness is key no drama allowed period or no talking


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Hey out there new to this site but decided to give it a chance in hopes of meeti.. Female 37 from Pittsboro North Carolina, USA

Want to find my perfect sub willing to give themselves to be used how i please and serve me


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Pleasure and Pain lives here fantansies that excites explored, a guardian, love.. Female 38 from Darlington South Carolina, USA

A Sub pushes the limits of it's owner. It is passive, A sub must make time for the things it has to do, as well as the things he want to do. In it's filty self yet has the power to create harmony between it's responsibilities and finding time daily to do the things and tasks that brings him happiness, pleasure, personal fulfillment, and rejuvenation. Come to Goddess and be trained to be your true nature enjoying this Lifestyle on a Balance.


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Does anyone even read the profiles Female 50 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

Been on here a while. I've come to the conclusion that 98% don't even read the profiles based on quite a few telling me that my profile makes them so hot. So come on guys..PLEASE READ AND CHECK OUT MY INTERESTS


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I am a kind, open-minded and friendly person. I like to read a lot and like to h.. Female 30 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

Hobbies fill my life with interest, colors and new experience. That is why one of my hobbies is traveling - I enjoy discovering the world, meeting new people, trying new food and feeling new cultures. I also enjoy cooking and gardening. Growing roses and taking care of them makes my soul happy.


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Im dioxn lovelyn I am 37 years Old,I am Single five years Female 36 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm dioxn I am 39 years Old,I am Single five years ago...I'm White, dark White hair, brown eyes, 5' 7, 141 lbs.,Long Hair  and a healthy Lady. I'm self-sufficient, Beautiful, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.


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Curious newb… Will u hold my hand? Female 46 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the Charlotte region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 60.


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 47 from Augusta West Virginia, USA

I'm Nichole but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing My craft in "Alaska". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


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Honest mistress will train you sissy slut well and kink exhibits Female 45 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

I have been a
mistress for more than 15 years now and I am an active member of a group of
dominant women in the city and all over the world. I will not accept
anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I take quite
seriously. Enjoy outdoors activities and  have some kinks


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