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I am a dom looking for a submissive Female 31 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

like feminization, boy,  shemales,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.


Straight

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If youre looking for a girl with a great personality, youre lucky because I ha.. Female 50 from Columbia South Carolina, USA

Seeing my self smile makes me happy, I believe, you will gain from it when you come around


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This Dom is seeking a loyal sub for punishment, pleasure and training to be a go.. Female 34 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


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Young tender looking for an older man ! Female 23 from Blackville South Carolina, USA

Enjoying life and experiencing new things and cooking !


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Loving and adventurous Dom looking to explore with a sub Female 39 from Canada Kentucky, USA

Dom mistress looking for a sub to enjoy the pleasures of this alternate lifestyle with. Also seeking a long term relationship.


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Im ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Lets explore and enjo.. Female 35 from Salisbury Maryland, USA

I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man


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Im 64 years old, living in the Charleston region. Female 64 from Charleston South Carolina, USA

I'm 64 years old, living in the Charleston region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 54 and 74.


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I’m looking for a man who can make me happy and wants to have a one on one relat.. Female 39 from Richmond Virginia, USA

I'm just me that's all I can be and I do me pretty dann good.


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I’m a bratty sub that’s leaning more sub these days. I would love to find a dom .. Female 26 from Buies Creek North Carolina, USA

I love reading I seen talk about my bonds all day long, I have a dog and he’s my world, I love traveling and exploring, I’m quite the rebel at times. I have an extroverted introvert personality and it’s draining. I have anxiety and that’s exhausting in and of itself.


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I’m a big baby girl for life ‍♀️ Female 27 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

It shouldn’t take too much to figure me out so try…


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how good are you with what you got? Female 49 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I am open minded, sexy, sensual and respect all

limits.;i am a dominant woman seeking a submissive man ready to explore

the the kinky world in a female lead long term relationship,

someone open to exploring new boundaries and pushing limits.

qualifications are for you to be

willing to learn and serious about your desires..I seek more of a kinky twist to the

everyday

vanilla affair. I am a very patient person and I don’t mind teaching someone who is new and

wishes to learn


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Am looking out for a good relationship Female 32 from Union South Carolina, USA

I like open minded people and understand I don’t keep things that hate me to myself


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I’m Key. I’m hoping to meet someone kind Female 47 from Augusta Georgia, USA

Reliable, responsible, tender, devoted and sincere. I know what I want from my life, I am purposeful and I achieve all my goals. I can be hot like a spicy chilli pepper and can be mild and sensuous. Depends which feelings you cause in me. Main thing which I like the most about my character is my kind heart. Does not matter which situation, which circumstances, I remain as a human and stay devoted to my life principles. I set easily contacts up. I am sociable. I am very positive and great sense of humour helps me a lot.


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exploring boundaries and embracing freedom Female 25 from Ladson South Carolina, USA

I'm a passionate explorer of the depths of BDSM, drawn to the intricate dance between power and submission. With an open mind and a thirst for new experiences, I embrace the beauty of vulnerability and trust that comes with this lifestyle. Let's delve into the realms of pleasure and pain together, and discover the infinite possibilities of connection and intimacy that BDSM offers.


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Always wanted to try this out and going through a divorce so let have fun Female 41 from Una South Carolina, USA

Working, honst and discreet. Looking to learn and a mistress for the moment.


Straight

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My name is Hannah and I will be very happy if you can write your number in lett.. Female 35 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

My name is Hannah  and I will be very happy if you can write your number in letters so that we can get to know about each other and exchange pictures


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Honest Caring woman looking for a soul mate Female 41 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

Loyal , faithful and easy going woman seeking for a soulmate


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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 34 from Canada Kentucky, USA

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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Married and looking for discreet relationship outside marriage. Female 30 from Washington North Carolina, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.


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Unleshing passion, desire with Elegance and intrigue. Are you READY TO SERVE? Female 31 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

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Bisexual

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Im 50 years old, living in the Blythewood region. Female 51 from Blythewood South Carolina, USA

I'm 50 years old, living in the Blythewood region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 90.


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looking to meet a dominant male Female 59 from Columbia South Carolina, USA

love pleasing and be>ng controlled.  Enjoy all different types of bondage


Straight

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I’m here to explore not to chat time waster x Female 25 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

Pm me if you want to explore your naughty fantasy and desires x


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Just tryna find some satisfaction… Female 58 from Raleigh North Carolina, USA

Young-minded and outgoing. Love to laugh, dance, and play. I’m also pretty open-minded.


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