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I am a dom looking for a submissive Female 31 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

like feminization, boy,  shemales,  panties/ lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.


Straight

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I am easy going person, lovely and down to earth. I am looking for honest and ca.. Female 50 from Lumber Bridge North Carolina, USA

I a boss on my own. I love to going to beach, take a long walk and


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Adventure-seek er with a passion for laughter seeks partner in crime for thrill.. Female 32 from Lenoir North Carolina, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Lenoir region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 31 and 90.


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33 year old female from Georgia, very experienced with this lifestyle as Ive le.. Female 38 from Washington Georgia, USA

"The magic happens when you're totally yourself". I'd like that too just be real with me and I'm sure we can get along just fine.


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Seeking for a serious relationship Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

I’m kind of calm person looking for a serious relationship that would lead to marriage


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Looking for non-pushy people to get to know. Lets talk and see if we match. Couple 58, 39 from Snow Camp North Carolina, USA

We are open to learning about new things. Life is short, let's enjoy it while we are here.


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I am seeking to meet someone caring, faithful , communicative , loyal , generous.. Female 38 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

I am here looking for a man to be with and make him happy always


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i love art ,and im a very sweet than you could imagine Female 38 from Canada Kentucky, USA

likes to take charge and take the lead in the bedroom


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Im 59 years old, living in the California region. Female 59 from California Maryland, USA

I'm 59 years old, living in the California region.
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Greetings to you. It would be a great pleasure to hear from you as soon as possi.. Female 37 from Charlotte North Carolina, USA

Greetings to you. It would be a great pleasure to hear from you as soon as possible, I’m single and sincere woman willing to meet the most righteous man in person to build strong trust and soon see how things may lead


Straight

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Just a small town couple looking for some fun trying new things. Were up for t.. Couple 32, 32 from Augusta Georgia, USA

Looking to have fun. Try something different. He is straight and she is bi. Shes into mostly everything sexual. Trying to find someone who is trustworthy and also honest. Message us if your interested


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I’m easy going person I love reading bible and I love kids so much well love to .. Female 35 from Greensboro North Carolina, USA

I’m easy going person I love reading bible and I love kids so much well , I'm a college student attending stern business school in NC


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single and lonely ready to explore... also need someone serious with good sense .. Female 53 from Hudson North Carolina, USA

I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day!


Straight

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Loving and adventurous Dom looking to explore with a sub Female 39 from Canada Kentucky, USA

Dom mistress looking for a sub to enjoy the pleasures of this alternate lifestyle with. Also seeking a long term relationship.


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Im 36 years old, living in the Canada region. Female 36 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Canada region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


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Im a loving and a caring Dom can switch with the perfect man that know his way .. Female 39 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I'm 39 years old, and I seek someone who is willing to do anything to please me. I'm very naughty, sexy and romantic. Let's explore and have fun together.


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It takes seconds to make good friends that last a lifetime Female 38 from California Maryland, USA

Let's explore our sexual desires together
"Hey there! My name is jenna ivory and I'm really interested in exploring the world of sub dom dynamics. I've always been fascinated by the power dynamics and the trust that goes into it. I'm looking to connect with a supportive and understanding community where I can learn and grow. Excited to be a part of this club and meet like-minded individuals! "


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Im 35 years old, living in the Canada region. Female 35 from Canada Kentucky, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Canada region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 77.


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I’m a dominant mistress looking for loyal sub Female 37 from Dublin Virginia, USA

I’m a dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding malesub to own and coller on


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New to this community, but definitely curious. Female 33 from Greenville South Carolina, USA

I am a homebody, through and through. I enjoy spending time with my pets when I’m not working.


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A submissive personality, hoping to find someone who can push me beyond my limit.. Female 34 from California Maryland, USA

visiting beautiful places and having fun within crating memories , passion for exploring boundaries and creating a safe consensual space.


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Am here for fun and good long time relationship Female 33 from Washington Georgia, USA

Am here for good Long time relationship and some fun


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Hello “I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with yo.. Female 37 from Canada Kentucky, USA

Loving,caring,and supportive “Love is like the wind, you can’t see it but you can feel it.”


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Feel free to let your minds blown away by that special remarkable mistress which.. Female 45 from Canada Kentucky, USA

love traveling, swimming reading and
most importantly the basm world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess, Who would love to be with
me always and love to travel the world with me.


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I’m Rose here very honest I’m actually new here I want a man who I can trust an.. Female 46 from California Maryland, USA

I’m 38 years of age here but please the picture on my profile is my Mom so don’t mind about that okay guys please


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