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I am a very open, cheerful, good woman. I hope to find here a serious man with w.. Female 40 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

I like to watch detective stories and action-packed thrillers. I also like to cook delicious meals for my family. I like animals very much and my biggest passion is to be around them


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Hello there everyone nice meeting here am jamie by name Female 41 from Dearing Kansas, USA

Hello everybody! I am glad to be a part of the dating community. I am the type of woman who is shy and does not talk much about herself. It is better to ask me questions, and I will try to give a detailed answer to them. In general, I am a calm and peaceful person who does not like conflicts. It is very easy to communicate with me and I am always an easy-going person.


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Im 37 years old, living in the Wichita region. Female 37 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Wichita region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 33 and 90.


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I strong believe in time and seasons Female 42 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

When am around nature
I love the beach side I love going for camps and I wish to get a dog for myself as pet


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I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey Female 38 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

I'm experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant


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If you just saw my profile, I’m sorry you’re now lost and you can’t get back ❤️ Female 48 from Oklahoma City Oklahoma, USA

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im new on here trying to figure whats on here Female 33 from Tulsa Oklahoma, USA

im jovial and God fearing i love to joke lol like i said im new on this site but im not really new to the lifestyle


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Just let me know whenever you feeling honey Female 38 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

I like to always face life with a smile, despite the hard and difficult moments, every day we have the opportunity to write another chapter of our life and I decide to live it to the fullest without fear of what might happen.


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I’m just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Nebraska City Nebraska, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood  or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Looking for some naughty nasty fun Female 40 from Cheney Kansas, USA

Well having a wild naughty sex is what makes me happy


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Don’t feel shy to say hi I’m sweet Female 43 from Junction City Kansas, USA

I’m a down to earth person when you get to know me,I’m real ,open-minded, i don’t hide my feeling when it comes to the matters of the heart..I want to share my life with someone who will love me for what I am and want the same in return.


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Im a single mistress I seek for a good attractive male sub to train and own for.. Female 34 from Geary Oklahoma, USA

Seeking for a loyal,newbie or experienced submissive man to train and explore more of kinky fantasy…. I am Lady to Most. Master and Mistress to My subs only. I am very strict, and structured in how I teach. I teach and train Mine from scratch.


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I Never take anyone for granted especially the one who put trust on me I Just co.. Female 25 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

Hey Guys, I’m anne ! I’m a very CLEAN & sweet girl, & Very Straight Foward & To The Point! I love having FUN, I enjoying playing around


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Conoser para Aser trios 0arejas ombres o mujeres Couple 39, 39 from Independence Missouri, USA

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I am a big tease so all your buttons will be pushed until I find the things that.. Female 31 from Oklahoma City Oklahoma, USA

I enjoy kinks, fetish, and making you feel worthless. I want a completely devoted sub who is only interested in making me happy as his dominant and willing to get committed to his fantasy.


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Come get this ass spanked if you real Female 44 from Elk City Kansas, USA

Honest men only I need just need one good man though are you the one?


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I am a Dominant mistress looking for a serious, submissive and committed to serv.. Female 40 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy You worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain


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I love giving than receiving. Any lucky one out there? Female 37 from Wichita Kansas, USA

They say I am a very lovely woman. I am a happy and fun woman, easy going and respectful with so much love for humanity and therefore people feel comfortable with me. It's been a while since I had any erotic experience.


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We are roommates looking to date someone together as well as separately Couple 45, 32 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

A couple of besties who already share, we’ve decided to come out and date that way.

We are looking for a man who would be willing to date us. We do play together, but we love dick. It would be nice to find someone who would treat us like queens inside and outside the bedroom.

If you don’t live within a 50 mile radius of Kansas City, we appreciate the thought however we will not respond.


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Im 38 years old, living in the Wichita region. Female 38 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I'm very tired, being online. If anyone is ready to start a very serious relationship and any sexting and sex enjoying fun.


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An honest, humble man with a good personality. I am looking for an honest person.. Female 51 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I am a woman who enjoys every moment of life and those things that it offers us, I really like the beach since I was born on a beautiful island and of which I keep many beautiful memories, I love being in contact with nature, I tend to be very fun and not stress about unimportant things, I am always interested in knowing new things.


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Am Single and Looking for that special man to rock my world in his arms. Im ver.. Female 43 from Independence Missouri, USA

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We are a married couple looking for another couple to join us. She wasn’t to see.. Couple 41, 41 from Oklahoma City Oklahoma, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Oklahoma City region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 25 and 43.I'm White  with a Athletic body shape Dark brown hairShe 38 with an average body and blond hair.


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Im from Surrey. Im looking for a rich dom to submit to.No ppm5* Hotel expenses.. Female 32 from Sutton UK, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Sutton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 33 and 90.


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