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Im 43 shes 25. Looking for a BBC to help me fill fulfill her. Couple 44, 27 from Rivesville West Virginia, USA

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Im 44 years old, living in the Pittsburgh region. Female 44 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

Submissive will follow what daddy wants and be a good girl! Be punish as often as needed.


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Am here seeking for long term r Female 36 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

I am a person who is adventurous and enthusiastic. I love discovering new things. I am sweet, caring, and independent, which means I love taking care of myself and the people that I love. I prefer spending my spare time talking to the person I love and doing fun things together. I am an ambivert, so expect me to be silent and shy at first, but once I get comfortable with you, I am easy to get along with and am especially cordial and talkative. So if you are looking for a woman who is wife material, I'm the one for you.


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am honest woman single and looking for my soul mate Female 44 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

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I feel that no matter the distance if you can find one great person where you ha.. Female 43 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

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Seeking for one committed sub.. Female 31 from Washington Virginia, USA

I'm a well experienced female dom that derives joy in the body of my sub. seeking for one committed and loyal sub that knows his place at the feet of a woman . serious minded subs only .


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Hi there. Im an obedient sub looking for Dom/Master to control me, satisfy my s.. Female 37 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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Digital creator, looking for love fun and adventure Female 23 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

Am simple honest fun to be with  i have good vibes no dull moment with me love to dance and read book


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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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I am an honest, down to earth guy that will not tolerate games played with the h.. Female 50 from Dallas North Carolina, USA

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Im a mistress and I love to be in charge Female 36 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I love an experienced or new to the life style sub who enjoys pushing boundaries


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Im 25 years old, living in the Turkey region. Female 25 from Turkey North Carolina, USA

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Im seeking that slave/sissy/sub male i can use and control, Be Female 31 from Bridgeport Ohio, USA

like feminization,  boy,   shemales,  panties/lingerie,   humiliation,   pegging,   anal,   alot of things really.  
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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I am always ready to learn something new Because it doesnt hold me in place Female 58 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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I'm 42 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 90.


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If you seek a authentic mistress Send me A Dm Female 32 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

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Ideal Mistress here for the Good of the lifestyle and you!! Female 28 from Denver North Carolina, USA

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Im 37 years old, living in the Clemmons region. Couple 37, 37 from Clemmons North Carolina, USA

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Young Domme searching for submissives Female 24 from Athens Ohio, USA

my name is Arlo and I’m a young Dom that enjoys many kinks and fetishes. I love talking to submissive men- especially, sissy boys. My main kinks are: sissy boys, pet play, caregiving, and bondage.

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Im a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive sub to train and make him enjoy.. Female 32 from West Chester Pennsylvania, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity, ,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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