Mybedoryours woman header
Find casual encounters and NSA sex nearby
Sign up helper
Let's get started
Mybedoryours featured

Browse our members in Virginia

The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Virginia based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Local sex dating and casual encounters Virginia

If you have made it this far, chances are you are searching for the best way to find NSA sex partners, discreet affairs or local swingers. Your search can end here. MyBed OrYours is the ultimate adult personals site, connecting new members every month looking for sex, no-strings fuck buddies or naughty online chat.

What is adult dating?

To put it simply, adult dating is online dating for people looking for casual relationships rather than people looking for love although we do have many members who are just interested in some saucy online fun, chatting, messaging and flirting without actually meeting strangers for sex. It's up to you how far you wish to take it, why not sign up for a free account and take a look around. Everything you do on the site is secure and confidential so you can relax and be yourself.

Search our members. It's easy to get started and find your match.

My Bed Or Yours Members Around Virginia
My name is Lilly I’m 5’7 heights 175 lb 39c I’m very good ready to serve my mas.. Female 33 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

I would be really happy if to know more about you I love to make people happy and I’m looking for someone who I can truly happy with that is what you see is what you get about me .well all I want to ask now is do you have a big heart to accept my true service


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 39 years old, living in the Ocean City region. Female 39 from Ocean City Maryland, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Ocean City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 55 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Honesty and trust matters a lot Female 50 from High Point North Carolina, USA

Well im just me an easy  going  one who loves to laugh and makes people happy the way i can ....im a widow  .


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 47 years old, living in the Philadelphia region. Female 47 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

Fun, lively, easy to get along and kind hearted, supportive and hardworking


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Dom, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Tickle Play

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Looking forward to find some one to love Female 66 from California Pennsylvania, USA

All I can say about myself is that I am a good girl! I love nature, relaxation, singing. Deep down, I am a romantic. From the side I am a tigress. My family says that there is no one in the world whom I cannot love. I am a very open girl. I try to follow my lifestyle. It is very important for me to understand how I will spend this day. After all, every day should be special.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Sex Games, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Looking for a long term relationship Female 43 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

I am a woman looking for a serious relationship here. I am open to communication and ready to show the seriousness of my decisions here. For me, love is a symbol of hope and goodness in this world. And I want this goodness to be in my future family. That's why I'm counting only on serious relationships and I hope that my future husband will also be serious and ready for a serious relationship.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Well, I want to love and be loved Female 48 from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, USA

Happiness is contagious. The happier you are, the happier those around you, this is my motto. As for my character, I am a responsible person. I never make promises and then break them. It is not about me. I don't like to tell lies even to my close friends to have a good relationship. But, of course, I don't judge them when they make some mistakes. I simply try to help them solve their problems. Thanks to my age, I can confidently say that I know what I want from life. I know the value of this life, and I want to appreciate every minute with my loved one next to me. Maybe with you?


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Hey Im here to meet, mingle and have fun Female 30 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

I'm always horny,I need that horny man, more horny and even more horny, I love to go down even more under, I love working with my tongues


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im a single lady seeking for master to own me i promised to serve with love and.. Female 35 from Middle River Maryland, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Middle River region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether goo.. Female 41 from Norristown Pennsylvania, USA

I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love animals and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love.


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I am here looking for a man who would genuinely love me and wouldn’t waste my ti.. Female 35 from Canada Kentucky, USA

My ideal man is a combination of wit, appearance and character. I see him brave, masculine, smart, interesting, cheerful and confident. It is important for me that he must be strong, that I could feel weak and feminine next to him.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Outdoor Fun, Tickle Play

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I’m new here to see how it goes Female 32 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

I love swimming,taking walks down the park,observing nature,running and walking,i also love cooking and taking walks by the sea side


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Justabadgurl looking for a partner Female 33 from Washington Virginia, USA

Good conversation make me happy and happy especially BDSm lifestyle exploring


Straight

Looking for, ages 23-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I am a very positive girl who easily finds a common language with new people. I .. Female 53 from Connellys Springs North Carolina, USA

I probably won't surprise you, but in my free time I like to watch movies most of all. In my free time, I'm a total travel junkie and adventure-seeker. I dream of one day seeing the northern lights. Don't be shy to leave me a message for us to communicate more.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
lam Dominant, but there is nothing more that I appreciate, than to session with .. Female 47 from Mechanicsville Virginia, USA

lam Dominant, but there is nothing more that I appreciate, than to session with a man of their word who live to value My one of a kind style.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Mature, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Looking for fun smiles, and a lot of laughs. Chemistry is a must and honest com.. Female 64 from Bristol Pennsylvania, USA

Looking for passion for whatever makes us happy. I want to have my body ache for your touch, and yours for mine.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Nylons, Oral, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Video themselves, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple
Hi I’m new in new and I will like to meet people in here for a long term relatio.. Female 40 from Denver North Carolina, USA

I can tell about myself a lot, but I can tell you with confidence that I came on the Dating site that to find a real serious man which will respect me and share the whole of my life! Im tired to come at home where nobody waits for me. Im ready to change my life here and now. I am fun active lady, not boring and very honest and healthy. Are you too? Do you need a real woman in your life? Let's become closer to each other right now, wont waste our time and lets meet in real life! Are you ready with me?


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Pegging

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
And when I know you are super hard like rock, I start to give you hand job and s.. Female 36 from Camden New Jersey, USA

And when I know you are super hard like rock, I start to give you  hand job and jerking you


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Looking for male to join my male friend and me once or twice a month. Hope fin.. Female 70 from Winchester Virginia, USA

Like to share a cock orally. Like strapon to fuck male. Male and female share extra male in everyway


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-74. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Group Sex, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Ready to serve and submit my body for the right master Female 39 from Middle River Maryland, USA

I am a well trained sex,domestic and no limit sub seeking for a matured master to own me for a lifetime commitment ..my soul and body shall be your property and till death do us apart


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 47-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Actually am new here on this site but I often don’t visit because of my work I’.. Female 43 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

Life is to enjoy, laugh, communicate and have a connection with someone special who has a zest for life and all things in it. I like to be active and I tend to find the humor in life. It’s my feeling that people need adventure, laughter and passion....Let’s talk and see where life takes us.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
am honest woman single and looking for my soul mate Female 44 from Ohiopyle Pennsylvania, USA

am single and looking for someone’s special in my life, who i can trust and i love you.


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Lace, LGBTQIA+, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I’m looking for a man who can make me happy and wants to have a one on one relat.. Female 39 from Richmond Virginia, USA

I'm just me that's all I can be and I do me pretty dann good.


Straight

Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 48 years old, living in the Houston region. Female 48 from Houston Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Houston region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 52-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Impact Play, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Live My Life Likes Its Golden. Female 44 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

When I am around people who look and smell good can have intellectual talks and laugh.  Impromptu meets and love life. Living a good life!


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 35-62. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Fetish, Soft Swap

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple

Active member locations

  • Louisa Virginia /
  • Ringgold Virginia /
  • Critz Virginia /
  • Glen Allen Virginia /
  • Sussex Virginia /
  • University Of Richmond Virginia /
  • Partlow Virginia /
  • Petersburg Virginia /
  • Chesterfield Virginia /
  • Elliston Virginia /
  • Charlottesville Virginia /
  • Chester Virginia /
  • Colonial Heights Virginia /
  • Unionville Virginia /

We're not your run of the mill adult dating site. We were fed up with the amateur looking sites and poor service the others were offering. We wanted to create a discrete, exciting site that lets you find bedroom partners that excite you. No tricks or sleazy tactics - just an honest, upfront, safe way for you to find a fuck buddy. To prove the point we offer a free - no credit card - trial for you to get a feel of what we have to offer. Membership fees pay for our full time monitoring staff to keep away the trolls and any nuisance members.

h5>Women seeking casual fun in Virginia

Women pay absolutely nothing for full, unrestricted access to all our horny guys. No matter how many guys you contact or how many messages you send or receive, you will never be asked to pay anything, ever! Unlike some sites, we still believe in providing a world class experience for our users. Taking your money and running is not the basis of a successful, long-term business like ours. The more women we have one our site the better. With an average member renewing their membership for over five months, the numbers speak for themselves.

Imagine the excitement of meeting your first new bedroom playmate. Their lips on your skin, fingers through your hair. With mybedoryours.com that fantasy could be happening a lot sooner than you think. We already have members in Virginia. If you fancy taking a peek at them you can sign up for free now. Our trial memberships are completely free and you don't need a credit card, just an email address. Oh and females get automatic full memberships.

Why should you join My Bed of Yours?

At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.

Verified Profiles for Peace of Mind

We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

Discreet & Safe Sex Dating

Privacy is paramount to us. We understand the importance of discretion, especially when it comes to intimate connections. Our commitment to anonymity means that your personal information is always kept confidential. Our in-house security team works tirelessly to ensure that your privacy is protected.

Security & Data Protection

Your safety is our top priority. That's why we've invested in robust security measures to safeguard your data. There aren't any apps to download and install so your membership can remain private.

At My Bed or Yours, we're dedicated to providing you with a safe and enjoyable online dating experience. Join us today and discover a community where you can connect with confidence.

Looking for something different?

Free sign up - no credit card required

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Sign in to search

A FAST, FUN WAY TO FIND SEX NEAR YOU

Featured areas

Looking for someone closer?
Users also searched for members in