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Hello am a single woman who seeks to engage into a long term relationship Female 40 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the Indianapolis region. Female 35 from Indianapolis Indiana, USA

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I am really a honest girl and if you don’t trust me don’t massage me Female 39 from Michigan City Indiana, USA

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Looking for a submissive to train as mine Female 31 from Chicago Illinois, USA

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Im ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Lets explore and enjo.. Female 51 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

Submission does NOT equal passivity. I always steer clear of a submissive whose only answer to me about what submission means is, “I’ll do whatever you want”. I expect submission to be proactive and pleasing. For example, if you know I have a black coffee every morning then plan ahead and make sure I have it just as I am beginning to desire it. But don’t start bringing me decaf because you think it’s better for me. Pleasing anticipation is different from taking control.


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Im 45 years old, living in the Ohio City region. Female 45 from Indianapolis Indiana, USA

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