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I am very new here just giving it a try to see how it goes Female 43 from Bardstown Kentucky, USA

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l am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me , lets explore an.. Female 46 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

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Im 58 years old, living in the Ohio region. Female 59 from Ohio Illinois, USA

I'm 58 years old, living in the Ohio region.
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I AM INTERESTED IN ANYTHING, JUST MESSAGE ME DEAR.. Female 34 from Danville Illinois, USA

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lets get started for new adventure Female 49 from Chicago Illinois, USA

I am open minded, sexy, sensual and respect all

limits.;i am a dominant woman seeking a submissive ready to explore the the kinky world,

someone open to exploring new boundaries and pushing limits. qualifications are for you to be

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mistress seeking for a loyal, honest, obedient, trustworthy sub Female 35 from Mequon Wisconsin, USA

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Im 38 years old, living in the Montreal region.Hi! Im looking for someone who.. Female 72 from Montreal Missouri, USA

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