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I enjoy a good adventure, friendship, comprehension, tolerance, dialogue, to acc.. Female 38 from New Hampton New Hampshire, USA

I'm a woman who owns her words, who is independent, self-confident, knows her worth, loves God and treats people, and especially men and older people with respect, i am focused, disciplined, playful, fun, sense of humor always and  a warrior with a tender heart.


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Single looking for someone to spend my time with Female 47 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Pennsville region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 45 and 85.


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A sexy,kinky and fetish goddess. I’m a gym lover with a sexy body.. Female 38 from New Hampton New Hampshire, USA

I love gyms, in for the fun and meet up all about exploring fantasies and pleasures.


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I am a dominant mistress seeking for a submissive Female 30 from New York New York, USA

like feminization,  boy,   shemales,  panties/lingerie,   humiliation,   pegging,   anal,   alot of things really.  
Don't like blood,  or pain


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Im 23 years old, living in the New York region. Female 23 from New York New York, USA

I'm 23 years old, living in the New York region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a man aged between 23 and 79.


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Im looking for that special someone who will rekindle the love and flames of th.. Female 53 from New York New York, USA

I think a nice conversation about ourselves and know each other....I believe aside from this lifestyle we can create a remarkable vibe...I like kinky, orgasm and other ways at pleasing one and another. Lastly I hope my partner could be district about this lifestyle because not everybody sees it the way we do


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Im 43 years old, living in the New York region. Female 43 from New York New York, USA

I love gaming,going to the movies,Hunting,road trips too


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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 29 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.



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Im looking for a real serious sub whos ready to serve and worship at my feet n.. Couple 40, 54 from New York New York, USA

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I am a woman who has life experience and knows what needs to be done in a relati.. Female 25 from New York New York, USA

I want to be close to a serious man who makes a commitment to take care of me and never hurt me. I strive for loyalty and honesty in relationships, so I always demonstrate these qualities myself. When I feel love, I try to make every effort to make that love stronger every day.


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I am just New and opened person on here Female 36 from North Bergen New Jersey, USA

I am a kind, gentle, nice, very active, purposeful, cheerful woman. I have a good sense of humor. I like to have a healthy life, to cook tasty food. I enjoy having flowers, plants at home, because I have a special atmosphere there and my flowers are always so beautiful. So, come to me and you will enjoy this very good atmosphere with me.


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Hookup or FWB that can lead us to a brighter future someday soon Female 59 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

Can you ask me later if you are interested in getting to know more about each other well


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I am a Dom that believes in love Female 54 from New Haven Connecticut, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training  men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle I want to show to my potential Sub/Slave. All I want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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A woman who values both beauty and open-mindedness is looking for a fun and exci.. Female 48 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

An experienced master who is actively searching for a male partner who shares a genuine enthusiasm for exploring our shared fetish preferences. This journey of exploration is not only an opportunity for us to indulge in their desires but also a chance to forge a deep, trusting connection with a like-minded individual. Together, we aim to embark on a thrilling and mutually satisfying adventure, delving into the intricacies of their fetish interests while nurturing an open and respectful partnership.


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As for My experience in the lifestyle, Well I began My experience as a Mistress .. Female 50 from New York New York, USA

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All thing’s bright and beautiful Female 26 from West Chester Pennsylvania, USA

I’m down for fun and also if you need a body massage


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Im Kate, a very kinky and dominant woman seeking submissive ones Female 36 from Jersey City New Jersey, USA

I'm open to lots of fantasies which include taking new submissive ones... Introducing you to a new world will be my pleasure


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Love and happiness is all I need now Female 44 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

About me
All I can say about myself is that I am a good girl! I love nature, relaxation, singing. Deep down, I am a romantic. From the side I am a tigress. My family says that there is no one in the world whom I cannot love. I am a very open girl. I try to follow my lifestyle. It is very important for me to understand how I will spend this day. After all, every day should be special.


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I want to explore the BDSM lifestyle with you Female 30 from New York New York, USA

Yes you! Tell me why we can't explore the BDSM lifestyle together, hit me up let me open a new world in your soul


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Loving couple who’s into having a great time! Love to socialize, bar hopping and.. Couple 28, 31 from New York New York, USA

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I’m here to meet the right people Female 33 from New York New York, USA

Well I’m a very passionate mistress. I am open minded


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Im here looking for serious relationship with honest man Female 28 from New York New York, USA

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I am just a down to earth person who loves real people. I am more concerned abou.. Female 43 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the North Scituate region. Female 34 from North Scituate Rhode Island, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the North Scituate region.
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