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I am a down to earth Mistress and I wish for a loyal, obedient, down to earth an.. Female 45 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

A submissive who knows and acknowledges his duties to his mistress, and if you're a newbie, well.. Mistress will be glad to teach you all you need to know about being a submissive but first, you've got to be loyal, obedient and well behaved too.


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I’m a professional mistress here looking for serious person who is interested an.. Female 41 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

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We are loving caring supportive professionals looking to give love


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Im Jane, a wild and fun dominant woman seeking to be worshipped Female 38 from Brookhaven New York, USA

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Im 23 years old, living in the California region. Female 23 from Florida New York, USA

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Am Experienced Mistress Seeking mature main sub that is capable to commit to me .. Female 36 from New York New York, USA

Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetishes, I will give you the opportunity to escape your everyday life and let yourself be fascinated and revitalized by my divine dominant, sensual eroticism. I'm an experienced dominant mistress who have lead this lifestyle for a very long time and also a loving mistress who seek a loyal sub/slav,e. that is ready to live the alternate  BDSM lifestyle with me for a long term relationship, I am not into much pain at all, rather, I like the kinky role play, bondage play, foot worship, pussy worship, nipple play and lost more, With all this side are you ready and willing to be trained and dominanted by me as your MISTRESS!? IF YES, GET IN TOUCH MAINLY HERE FOR MATURE MINDS ONLY!! loyal submissive sub whom if faithful and always tells the truth ready to serve so I can train


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Mistress is looking for loyal, obedient and willing to serve submissive to own a.. Female 33 from Atlantic City New Jersey, USA

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IM A DOMINANT SEEKING FOR A SUB Female 31 from New York New York, USA

r I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


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I need an obedient boy in my life Female 27 from Sicklerville New Jersey, USA

Empowering through financial domination.
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I am easy and on going lady with big heart filled with love and care Female 43 from Delaware City Delaware, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Delaware City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 90.


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Kinky in style, pleasurable in action. Female 43 from Pennsburg Pennsylvania, USA

Having my loyal sub in a vulnerable position and rimmed.


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Loving couple who’s into having a great time! Love to socialize, bar hopping and.. Couple 28, 31 from New York New York, USA

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I have a high sex drive and am i want some who is willing to satisfy his woman Female 36 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

.The best days of my life are yet to come and i am looking for someone who will love and care about me for a long time relationship that can lead to marriage. Although I would consider myself be a romantic, I don't believe that life is about the 'grand passion.' In reality it is more about comfortable comrade. I am really a fun person who loves people,loves to laugh, I am very caring,love music, dancing, singing ( in my car) ! Love the church...am a devoted friend. I like to have fun,I have strong moral values with honesty and integrity being the core of my personality, am very cool, i respect my dignity


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Hey there and I’m open to anything Female 32 from Newark New Jersey, USA

I love camping and fishing, not really sure what I sandy Is looking for on here tho


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I am little mermaid looking for an obident sub to control Female 28 from New York New York, USA

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Bisexual

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I am looking for a submissive male to train and use for my satisfaction. You mus.. Female 42 from Maryland Line Maryland, USA

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Straight

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Anyone can participate, but I goddess is popular with instructing my male subs. Female 48 from Florida New York, USA

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Straight

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Mistress Juana looking for obedience sub for training Female 33 from Florida New York, USA

Mistress love obedient sub that will obey me and make me happy


Bisexual

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Lookin for a submissive/bott om Female 38 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I have a solid background in BDSM and I want to find a worthy submissive who is willing to be guided into a long term relationship


Straight

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We are new to the lifestyle. Looking to share each other with another couple. Couple 43, 43 from Wampsville New York, USA

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Straight, Bisexual

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My friends say Im funny, witty, easy to hang with. I like to stay in but I also.. Female 33 from Waltham Massachusetts, USA

I'm happy to date and see where things go with the right person but ideally I'm looking to find the right other half to spend the rest of days together. I like someone who has similar interests as me and who also is looking for that companion to tool around with.


Bisexual

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This is a first for us, you might say we are virgins. Lol corny I know but reall.. Couple 57, 58 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

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Hi there, I am looking for serious relationship . Female 39 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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Straight

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