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Any mature male ready to Embrace his submissive side?? All you need to do is hav.. Female 51 from New Haven Connecticut, USA

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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 25 from Florida New York, USA

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I am dom seeking for a submissive sub to train to be mine Female 31 from Florida New York, USA

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I am a cheerful woman with a good sense of humor who can and wants to love. I kn.. Female 42 from New York New York, USA

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i am a very easy going and down to earth woman, a widow hoping to find a man i c.. Female 53 from Delaware City Delaware, USA

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I am a mistress looking for a sub Female 31 from New York New York, USA

like feminization,  boy,   shemales,  panties/lingerie,   humiliation,   pegging,   anal,   alot of things really.  
Don't like blood,  or pain.


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Actually am new here on this site but I often don’t visit because of my work I’.. Female 43 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

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Are you looking for the love of your life? Female 32 from Atlantic City New Jersey, USA

i am always super excited anytime i see the sunrise.  becuz i believe today will be a good day. i like to be active and tend to find the humor in life. it's my feeling that people need adventure laughter and passion.... let's talk and see where life take us.


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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. Female 36 from Island Heights New Jersey, USA

l am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way


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Im into extreme experiences and am looking for a fun-loving partner to join me .. Female 53 from Pennsville New Jersey, USA

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Im 26 years old, living in the Boston region. Female 27 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

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