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A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I’M A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE SUB TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 29 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Don't like blood or pain.


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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO TRAIN AND COLLAR AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I am 26, live in ABQ, and am looking for someone to help me explore and further .. Female 27 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Just want no strings attached just to enjoy a night Couple 39, 32 from Odessa Texas, USA

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. I am looking for a serious relationship that will reached the future. Female 48 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Hello I’m new here I just joined Female 51 from Santa Fe New Mexico, USA

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lam a fun loving lady who loves to explore new things. I am looking for a fun lo.. Female 43 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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I’M A DOM SEEKING A SUBMISSIVE SUB TO TRAIN AS MINE Female 30 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Im 26 years old, living in the Albuquerque region. Female 26 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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I am very happy to push experienced subs hard Female 35 from Las Vegas New Mexico, USA

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I am an easy-going, sociable person. Female 37 from Albuquerque New Mexico, USA

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Looking for a serious relationship with the right man Female 34 from Los Alamos New Mexico, USA

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