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Im 51 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 51 from Los Angeles California, USA

I’m honest and kind woman easy to get along with, get close to me and know who I’m really are


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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. So, you.. Female 30 from Los Angeles California, USA

As you may have seen on My profile on the site, I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way.


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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 35 from California City, California

I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.


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I’m a Dominant Mistress who is looking for submissive to collar in my dungeon. Female 35 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am a dominant mistress who likes to be in control looking for that obedient sub. Who will always serve and worship at my feet and lick my ass and who will be very honest.
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Fun, adventurous and spirited! Female 33 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am loving, caring and fun. Looking for a sub to get kinky with. Hopefully it will lead to a LTR!


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Im 41 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 41 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 22 and 94.


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Looking for the right FWB relationship. . Female 71 from Carlsbad California, USA

Thought I was interested in a bdsm relationship but I’ve discovered I’m too dominant to be a true submissive and not dominant enough to be a dominant.
Somewhere in the middle I guess, but not sure what that looks like.
I want an FWB; I’m not looking for marriage nor a 24/7 relationship. I would like someone that is kind, loyal and not demanding or unreasonable.
I want something less vanilla than my 30 year marriage was.
I’m easy to get along with, I enjoy quiet times and just hanging out and being with someone whether watching TV, a movie or relaxing.


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Call me your mistress I would love to dominate you Female 55 from Los Angeles California, USA

I love to be worshiped with loyalty and acceptance


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am here looking for fun same times something serious to see where this will take.. Female 38 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work right?


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Up for anything, anytime, anywhere! Come on in, the waters just fine!❤️❤️ Female 24 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Hello everyone I’m here looking for a long term relationship Female 38 from Long Beach California, USA

I’m very friendly and kind and I’m looking for my partner


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Im 37 years old, living in the Columbus region. Im interested in meeting a man.. Female 38 from Coronado California, USA

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Mistress In waiting, don’t make me wait too long … Female 27 from Irvine California, USA

I'm 27 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 30 and 90.


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We are a couple in Bakersfield looking for fun spots in the area Couple 45, 45 from Bakersfield California, USA

Love sucking dick in the open doors love flashing my pussy lips.. Love outdoor fun now that the weather is getting better


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Im a caring mistress, looking for a loyal sub, for a long term fun relationship Female 40 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm a caring mistress, looking for a loyal sub, for a long term fun relationship


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Hello I’m here to find the love of life Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

Am that type of person who always try to make people laugh. I always make sure to share the little that I have with someone and  also satisfied with whatever I have...


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Experienced mistress looking for a loyal sub to explore this lifestyle with. Female 64 from Las Vegas Nevada, USA

Mistress enjoys pussy worship,breast worship, pegging and other kinky role plays. Feel free to inbox me let's explore if you have the same fantasy with me.


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I am quite a very interesting mistress you would love to get acquainted with...I.. Female 36 from Los Angeles California, USA

I am quite a very interesting mistress you would love to get acquainted with...I love meeting new people exploring new things and lots more .. am ready to meet an arrangement and teach sub all that he needs to know about the bdsm lifestyle as well as exploring his fantasies. We can text more privately and an arrangement for a nice discreet place to and explore together if you’re serious and ready.


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Im 25 years old, Im actually seeking for the submissive ones, whos ready for .. Female 25 from California City California, USA

I'm a pro dome, I enjoy this lifestyle everyday of my life and I practice what I preach everyday. I got into this dominant lifestyle for some old years back, I need a submissive person that would be my personal property and that would serve, obey command


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Im a dominant mistress wanting to own a malesub Female 43 from Los Angeles California, USA

I'm a dominant mistress down for hookup, relationship and also ready to teach and train a responsible malesub to on collerd on bdsm lifestyle


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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 46 from San Diego California, USA

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Hi everyone, I’m Beautiful Mistress Jessica, let’s explore our fantasies togethe.. Female 30 from Los Angeles California, USA

Hi, I’m Miss Jenny, i need an honest male submissive who’s eager to learn about the bdsm lifestyle and  submit to his mistress, i don’t need any tribute from a potential sub.


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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I’m a confident and experienced individu.. Female 50 from Long Beach California, USA

I’m blonde yet powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. I can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman


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My name is Rebecca ,i am 50years Old,I am Single (five years ago), black hair,B.. Female 45 from Los Angeles California, USA

My name is Rebecca ,i am 50years Old,I am Single (five years ago), black  hair,Black eyes, 5' 9", 141 lbs.,Long Hair  and a healthy Lady. I am self-sufficient, Beautiful, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.


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