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I’m not sure what I’m looking for- but I know I want more. Open to suggestions, .. Female 37 from Manassas Virginia, USA

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I’m a Dominant woman, who is looking for a submissive grow into a 24/7 with deep mental and physical domination. A1950’s household dynamic. I don't have time to waste and I have simple and logical transition, which I'd be happy to share. it is reasonable and cuts out the BS. My ideal sub is 50 and older yrs, mature, articulate, and needs to submit. You must be 100% enthusiastic and engaged. Training includes poses, positions, kneeling, commands, servitude, rules, and daily expectations.

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Im 34 years old, living in the Harrisburg region. Female 34 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Harrisburg region.
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hello there am Yvonne single never married with no child and hoping to find my s.. Female 37 from California Maryland, USA

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Hope everyone is having a great day! Female 48 from Feasterville Trevose Pennsylvania, USA

New to kink, so I'm not sure what I'm into. I'm just mingling right now.

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As for My experience in the lifestyle, Well I began My experience as a Mistress .. Female 50 from New York New York, USA

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HERE FOR A CASUAL FUN WITH A SUB Female 30 from New York New York, USA

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Im 48 years old, living in the Harrisburg region. Female 48 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Harrisburg region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 76.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Slim body shape

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