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I am looking for my potential sub no games just fair fun and exciting journey th.. Female 29 from Fairfax Virginia, USA

Technically don't look my age lol but don't let that fool you


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A sexy-kinky sub looking for a lucky sub waiting to be pegged Female 32 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

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Im on here to have the time of my life and enjoy this BDSM lifestyle Female 51 from Lancaster Pennsylvania, USA

I'm discreet and I like being pampered an taking care of and am also a dominant woman looking for a submissive to come to his/her  kness


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Just looking to meet a honest man Female 45 from Hackettstown New Jersey, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Hackettstown region.
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Married couple in lindenwold new jersey both are bi both shaved below looking fo.. Couple 48, 48 from Newark New Jersey, USA

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I’m Stella a calm and caring woman hoping to meet the love of my life on this si.. Female 38 from Harrisburg Pennsylvania, USA

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I am a romantic and cheerful girl with whom you will never be bored. I love an a.. Female 49 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

I love music and thematic musical performances. I also love theatre, opera, visiting art galleries and exhibitions. I enjoy travelling, especially to historical places. My relaxation is often active - swimming, walking, camping. But I will not refuse reading a good book or watching an interesting movie. And my one more passion is cooking and baking


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Am Stella single with a 5 year old son looking for a serious relationship thats.. Female 38 from New York New York, USA

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I will peg you until I am willing to stop, are you ready for sessions with me? Female 49 from Hamilton Virginia, USA

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Hoping to find true love and a soulmate … Female 53 from Manchester New Hampshire, USA

Am an independent woman. Likes reading books at my leisure time since I got know one to talk to or text with ..I wish I find my soulmate here


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Parejas en busca de diversión Couple 47, 49 from New York New York, USA

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I am dom seeking for a submissive sub to train to be mine Female 31 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Female 28 from Baltimore Maryland, USA

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im new here and seeking the love of my life Female 35 from New York New York, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Carrollton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Hoping to find what I’m looking for on here Female 29 from New York New York, USA

I’m new to this. Feel free to ask me anything you wish to know about me.


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Available for hookup and fun. DM and ask for menu. Female 31 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

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I might be looking for you too, lets give it a try. drop a line. Thank you Female 38 from Mclean Virginia, USA

I consider myself a very good person with a lot to offer to the right person. I just don't give my heart away easily. I’m very passionate person and anything I get involved in, I do it right. I’m very positive and a solutions person.


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Im ready to offer strict, yet sensual domination to all submissives and I genui.. Female 42 from Dover New Hampshire, USA

most importantly someone willing to take the time to Build Trust. Not wanting a quickie one night but someone wanting to build a strong trust/bond


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Hey its me Sarah, here for fun and lots more Female 32 from New York New York, USA

Looking for mistress or master to feminise and cuckold me


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Welcome to my world. I am ready to lead you through the thrilling realms of domi.. Female 38 from Greenwich Connecticut, USA

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