Since Craigslist announced they would be closing down their online personals section, popular with singles looking for local hookups and escorts touting their services, the world of free online personals has been left with a huge void to be filled. While sites like Backpage and popular hookup apps such as Tinder have increased in popularity, people still crave the simplicity, variety and free access Craigslist provided.(more…)
Australia tops the charts for cheating
According to research by Sexual Health Australia, around 70 percent of Australian marriages experience infidelity, with around 60% of men and 45% of women admitting to straying. Sexual Health Australia do not specify what is considered cheating in their research. For many people the definition of cheating varies considerably. In some relationships, flirting and touching is a perfectly acceptable part of a healthy relationship while others consider this a betrayal.(more…)
How to spice up your sex life using online sex finder sites
If your sex life is dull, boring or non-existent, or you feel you need to experience something new and exciting. Finding sex online is probably the easiest and most convenient way to meet new people for casual sex. In this guide, we will discuss different ways to meet new people online for sex. How to approach people and what to expect.
Find sex online fast
Rather than trying to hookup for sex using dating apps like Tinder or trawling personals on Craigslist or Backpage, the absolute best way to find casual sex online is through a dedicated sex finder app or website. Choosing a trustworthy site can be a bit of a minefield but once you find the right site, the opportunities for free, casual sex are endless.
Find a site to explore sexual fantasies and try new things
One advantage of meeting new people online for sex is the variety of different people who use such sites which gives you the chance to explore hidden fantasies, try new things and maybe, learn something new. This is especially true if you are recently single after a long-term relationship and have limited sexual experience outside of that relationship. Fortunately, many sites like My Bed or Yours offer a multitude of search options so you can meet different people looking for varied sexual encounters and experiences with different people. With My Bed or Yours you can even search for members by their favourite sexual position! Choosing a site with the ability to search members by sexual interests, fetishes and sexual positions is a fantastic way to spice up your sex life, try something new in the bedroom or even meet couples looking for a threesome or local swingers.
What is the best sex finder app?
Obviously, we will say My Bed or Yours, but that’s because we believe it. There are loads of online sex finders out there. Some claiming to be free, some good, some not so good. Firstly we should look at free hookup apps. Ask yourself why are they free? A quality service requires investment, staff and marketing. How can a website offer a quality service for free? Often, the answer is simple. Its not really free. Others subsidise the cost of operating by selling your personal information or spamming you with unwanted ads. A good personals site will offer you the opportunity to try their service for free or a small fee and once you are happy, you can pay a reasonable monthly subscription for a quality service with plenty of members to keep you entertained. My Bed or Yours are so confident in the quality of our service, we offer both. Any person over 18 is able to register a totally free trial account without any credit card details, All you need is a working email address. Your free account will allow you to explore all the areas of our site, search members and upload one profile photo. You will also be able to upgrade your account to premium membership on a three day trial basis for a very small fee which is a low cost way of experiencing the full site, unlimited messaging, video calling, premium profile placement and unlimited photos and videos. We are confident that once you see just how easy it is to find sex online, you will become a lasting member of our naughty dating community.
Meeting people through casual dating sites
You have decided what site you want to use, signed up and verified your account, what’s next?
Firstly, you will need an attention grabbing profile. This includes a recent photo. Hide your face if you are shy. And a brief but catchy intro. Keep it short, friendly and to the point. No one reads a full page manifesto, they will simply move on.
Once you have an active profile, make sure you complete any questions you are asked such as location, age, sexual preferences and characteristics you are looking for. Most hookup sites use these to show the most relevant matches to other members so you want to show up in as many relevant searches as possible.
Now you are ready for some fun
Hopefully, you are now set up on a reputable sex finder site or app, have a quality profile and are now matching with similar members near you. How to you approach other members to ensure the best success rate?
A combination approach works best here. As with picking up guys or girls in a bar, it’s a bit of a numbers game. The more people you hit on, the better chance of success. This doesn’t mean sacrificing a quality approach for a sloppy, copy and paste generic message. Try to identify with something in a users profile that demonstrates you have taken the time to read it. A simple message such as the following should instigate a conversation.
“hey, I see you like 90’s music. Have you ever been to The Depot in Salt Lake City?
Hopefully, now you will have sent out some messages and received some replies. You will find that many replies will be more forward than messages you would expect to receive on most dating sites. This isn’t an excuse to demand sex, be rude or pushy. Sure, feel free to say what you are looking for and what you enjoy, but keep it polite, relaxed and friendly and you will be rewarded..
Look out for our upcoming post on meeting for sex for the first time.
Infidelity is More Common Than Ever: Is the Internet to Blame or Are We Becoming More Open Minded?
UPDATED 31st August 2022
40%. 76%. According to Ph.D. student Geneviève Beaulieu-Pelletier, somewhere between those two numbers is where you can expect the probability that there is infidelity in your relationship.
Her findings are motivated by two studies which were recently conducted by the University of Montreal. The first focused on infidelity in subjects age 23 and under. The study concluded that 41% of participants had cheated, whereas a staggering 68% had considered cheating.(more…)
Sex in Norwich
This speed and convenience is great news for anyone living in and around Norwich who is looking for local sex or a regular fuck buddy as Norwich is one of our most active areas for messages send and received.
My Bed or Yours is an online personals site for progressive singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some casual flirting.
Our easy to use website and mobile app is a fantastic way to meet new people, explore your wildest fantasies and broaden your horizons. Our formidable database of active members and location search lets you find meetups and casual sex in Norwich fast and discreetly.
HAVE YOUR FIRST ENCOUNTER IN NORWICH ON US
You are moments away from meeting hot, horny guys and girls from Norwich and all over The UK looking for sex. The first simple step is getting yourself a free photo profile account. Once you have created your account you can check out your personalised recommendations, see who’s online and introduce yourself to our members.
What are you waiting for? Meet horny MILF’s, slappers and married housewives in Norwich today looking for some casual fun.
Sex in Newcastle
If you are hot, horny and looking for some fun in Newcastle, there are a wealth of ways to get your rocks off in the North East. Here is our guide to finding sex in Newcastle.
ONLINE PERSONALS SITES AND HOOK-UP APPS
Probably the easiest way to find sex near you is to use a site like My Bed or Yours. Choosing to find sex online makes the process faster and easier than nights on the town hoping to pull or paying for the services of and escort in Newcastle. My Bed or Yours is a discreet, easy to use personals site for consenting adults to meet other members for discreet meets, a bit on the side or a regular fuck buddy. If you are looking for a good time without the commitment or dramas that come with a serious relationship, My Bed or Yours is your new best friend. Search online for new sex partners in Newcastle or connect with our updated mobile app and find casual sex wherever you are, whatever time you need it.
SEX AND SWINGERS CLUBS
Popular with couples, Newcastle boast more than its fair share of adults only clubs for the most adventurous of couples. If you are open minded or curious and don’t mind sharing, some of the most popular sex and swingers clubs are to be found in the north of the city including:
Newcastles longest running swingers club, the club boasts multiple themed rooms, jacuzzi and even a sex dungeon. Shhh also run a trans night once a month.
If you don’t mind paying for it, there are a number of well established escort agencies operating out of Newcastle as well as several red light areas across the city including the main train station.
NEWCASTLE VOTED THIRD IN UK’S SLEAZIEST CITIES
According to research by The Sun, Newcastle boast the third most sex establishments per population after London and Blackpool with one for every 24,407 residents. This includes strip clubs, sex and swinging clubs, sex shops and adult cinemas.
MEET SLUTS IN NEWCASTLE
Newcastle’s bustling city centre is the perfect place to meet horny Geordies looking for a good time. Our latest mobile enabled site lets you connect with horny members whenever you want using secure messaging and geo-location. No matter where you are, any time of the day or night, you can now fuck local girls when they want it the most.
MORE MEMBERS THAN EVER
Our constantly expanding database of members ensures we have members online wanting sex from all over The UK. You will always find someone horny online when you are. Why not see who’s online right now?
SEX IN SCOTLAND
Are you hot and horny in the Highlands? We have you covered. For any person, male, female, young or old, we bring you our guide to finding sex in Scotland.
From club and bars, sex clubs, red light areas and dating apps, there is no shortage of ways to get your kicks in Scotland. Whether you are single and looking for some fun, a couple looking for sex and swinging parties or into something a bit kinkier, Scotland’s energetic nightlife and sex clubs are sure to get your pulse racing.
SCOTS ARE KINKY!
According to a data analysed from popular search terms, Aberdeen is a hotbed for swinging with over 5,000 monthly searches on average. While Edinburgh and Glasgow topped the poll for the kinkiest searches with Edinburgh searching for BDSM a whopping 2,000 times per month and, not to be overshadowed in the kinky stakes, Glasgow search data reveals they have varied sexual interests and fetishes including electrostimulation which is the act of electrocution for sexual pleasure, often in the genital area which is searched an average of 3,000 times a month. (source)
SEX CLUBS IN SCOTLAND
Scotland has plenty of sex and swingers clubs to suit all tastes and budgets. Mostly spread between the larger cities of Glasgow, Edinburgh and Aberdeen.
Burke and Hare – Edinburgh
Edinburgh’s famous Burke and Hare is located in the notorious ‘Pubic Triangle’, so called because of its three strip clubs. Your traditional pole dancing club with central dance floor and private rooms to the sides. Popular with stag do’s.
Bottoms Up Showbar – Edinburgh
A slightly classier lap dancing venue hidden behind a rather tiered exterior. Large main room with lots of dancers, private booths and classy décor make Bottoms Up one of the better choices for a sexy night out in Edinburgh.
Q Store – Edinburgh
Located in the gay quarter of the city centre, Q Store sells a range of adult toys and paraphernalia. Catering mainly for the cities gay scene, Q Store also stock sex toys and good for straight couples.
CJ’s adult parties – Glasgow
“CJ’s adult parties have all you need for a fun & enjoyable night out in safe & comfortable surroundings with a relaxed atmosphere.” CJ’s are Glasgow’s longest running and probably best known swingers parties offering a relaxed, professionally run regular swingers event.
Club Kudos – Dundee
Club Kudos is Dundee’s largest adult entertainment venue offering multiple rooms, showers, sauna and a steam room. They run different nights throughout the week including Gay, Bi, BDSM and swingers nights.
RED LIGHT AREAS
Glasgow has an acknowledged red light area, which is covered by CCTV cameras and well policed. Women in the main are not charged with soliciting offences within this area. This is a unique approach to prostitution in Scotland.
MEETING FOR SEX ONLINE
My Bed or Yours has a vast, active database of users in Scotland, most notably in Glasgow, Aberdeen and Dundee. Unsurprising really considering the dense population if these area. More interesting is the percentage of mature women in Dundee looking for local hookups so, if bedding a hot MILF or Cougar around Dundee is your thing, you are looking in the right place!
Who doesn’t want sex on tap? No messing about, just hot, horny sex when we need it the most. The problem with many sex dating sites is lack of members local to you, confusing search options or simply no genuine members period!
My Bed or Yours was created to connect horny guys and girls who are looking for a quick hookup, local fuck buddy or no strings encounters without the stress of a serious relationship or tiresome nights trawling bars looking for sex.(more…)
Sex in London
Here is our definitive guide to finding sex and casual encounters in London. With such a diverse population and vibrant nightlife, it’s no wonder London is one of the best places to find casual sex. The cosmopolitan city boasts a thriving underground sex club scene, high end swingers parties, popular dogging spots and a lively gay community.(more…)
My Bed or Yours guide to finding local fuck buddies, keeping it casual and rules of engagement.
For those unacquainted to the term ‘fuck buddy’, it is simply a term commonly used to describe a relationship based on casual sex where both parties are happy to meet up for sex but are not in an exclusive or serious relationship.(more…)