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What I'm looking for is. A true, loyal, honest. obedient slave. To serve Me. he/she. Needs to have own transport and able to travel. Or even better. That live in Stoke. he/she should have their own chasity device. I am looking for someone who can treat Me like the goddess I am. Worshipping My ass and every little part of Me!. They also need to worship BWW'S as I am Big Lady. size 26/28. I'm From Stoke. And I am really serious about this. I want/need to find that "one" that is perfect for Me. If you think you maybe the one. Then. Plz msg Me. Plz don't be scared. I'm really not that scarey. chuckle.. I do have a partner. Who does know about My kink. But doesn't have the same notions as Me on this subject. But allows Me to do as I please, concerning this. I am newish to the scene in r/t. But I have many years of experience with BDSM online relationships. I am Bi curious. So would like to expierience another female. Maybe sharing her with other subs. If I care to share. I describe Myself as caring, understanding, sensual, demanding . Caring: Because I do like to nurture My bitches. If I see and feel they deserve to see the caring side of Me. I'm also understand that although My bitches should be at My beckon call. I do realize that sometimes this is not possible.. The sensual part of Me: Lets hope you get to find that out. The demanding part of Me:. I demand a lot of things.. loyalty, commitment, Attention. I enjoy humiliating My slave in all ways.. Groveling, name calling, etc, etc. I enjoy physically humiliating Him/ her. through, spanking,, caning, ass fucking him like the bitch he/her is. etc.. There are many other ways that I express My Dominance.. I usually just go on My moods as to what I subject him to. I do have a few more rules. So If you are serious and interested. Then plz. Msg Me. Please! no WANNABES need apply! My rules! for those that it's just about f**king and spanking! Session Rules. Section 1 Upon pick up. 1: you are to be dressesed smartly.
2: Clean pants and socks. (pants with be checked for skids! and smell test with the socks!)
3: Cleanly shaven.
4: Freshly smelling breathe
5: Hair tidy. If any fault found you will be punished and made to shower/bathe Section 2: 1: you are to greet Me. Addressing Me as Mistress.
2: Be quiet until I say you can speak. (Or I talk to you)
3: Doors are to be open and closed for Me.
4: Any Bags I have with Me (Apart from handbag) Are to be taken and put on the back seat for Me. Section 3 On entering the room. 1: you are to strip of.
2: Folding each item at a time and placing them down in turn. Neatly.
3: Places shoes nicely and evenly.
4: your eyes are to lowered. "NOT" looking at Me until I ask for eye contact!
5: When you are not in use or I am busy.
you are to stand in the nearest corner with hands behind your head.
Until I have something for you to do or need you.
you are to stay still and quiet and wait for My command. Incase the case that we may need to discuss something.
An Alarm will be set
When the alarm sounds off.
You are to be instantly quiet and ready to start the session straight away.
by doing the above. (section 3) Section 4 When I am ready. 1: When you hear My command you are to obey instantly.
2: you are to come to Me.
3: kneel at My feet.
4: Legs Spread as far apart as possible.
5: Hands behind your back.
6: Head and eyes lowered. Await My command. Cleanliness is paramount!. Cock, balls and ass are to be shaved smoothly.
Armpits, balls and fat creases are to be free from any smells and sweat!
body checks will start with all sessions. So Be warned! Any faults and you will be punished!

Natalie, 41 Abbey Hulton, Staffordshire

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