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My Bed Or Yours Members Around London

Im a dominant mistress who has lived this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Purfleet, UK , 42

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage, restraints,  role play, collar lead, leash, body worship, discipline,  obedience training, strap on play, using sub as fuck toy, and Each relationship is unique and the people involved make their own rules for it and boundaries must be respected. In this fashion I wanna be your permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and only you will have me as well.

Seeking: Male

We are a new couple, we want to meet new people and enjoy London, UK , 50, 50

It makes us happy, have fun, talk to new people, enjoy sex, dance with respect and hygiene

Seeking: Male, Couple

Im a sociable, kind and caring girl. I hate lies and always try to smile, even .. Uxbridge, UK , 34

I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalrous man. When he likes to help me with a jacket, open doors for me and walk hand in hand. I especially enjoy going out in public with my man on his arm.

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hello how are you nice to meet you Spitalfields, UK , 33

hello am single and am looking for a man

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Im 43 years old, living in the London region. London UK, USA , 43

I'm 43 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 91.

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Hi im new here and im looking for some discreet fun :) London, UK , 36

I am looking for a fun guy. We can have fun and do things that make us both happy and just enjoy the moment and maybe an adventure becomes possible.

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Let’s have fun,i would make your sex fantasy come to reality Uxbridge, UK , 26

I would bring your wildest fantasies to life, you wanna know how ? Hit me up let’s get freakyLet’s have some fun ❤️

Seeking: Male, Couple

Looking for tonight hookup Haringey, UK , 38

I'm 38 years old, living in the Haringey region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 29 and 49.

Seeking: Male, Female

Enveloped within the captivating allure of the feminine,an irresistible magnetis.. Watford, UK , 38

I enjoy being treated like a queen that I am, I love sexual worships. I'm seeking for a sub male that loves to be pegged by beautiful ladies and loves to eat ass and very oral.

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Im 44 years old, living in the London region. London, UK , 44

Am Dora cool and love to mingle with people…… I’m here seeking for a life partner someone to spend the rest of my life with and see where it Will end us….

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Hi! I’m Lottie. I’m a bi sub, nice to meet you London, UK , 24

Hi! I’m looking for online fun with a dom, hoping to be a controlled obedient loyal sub for youMy main kink is praise, I love to be told I’m a good girl for my master or mistress.

Seeking: Male, Female

Hello Im just looking for some friends and do some fun London, UK , 28

I love to meet up new friends and do some fun , I love to travel

Seeking: Male, Female, Couple

I’m very happy to be here and I am not here for joking or playing here and I’m h.. London, UK , 47

I’m here to find a good relationship with a good man who I can be with him

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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess London, UK , 26

Looking for that special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly

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I am sure that this is where I will meet my beloved man, who is also looking for.. London Colney, UK , 37

I enjoy gardening. I love flowers very much, this is my hobby. I have many indoor plants and many beautiful flowers in my garden. I like to look after them and watch a beautiful flower grow from a small seed. I also love to cook.

Seeking: Male

Need a good loving , caring and honest man ❤️ London, UK , 39

I like gifts and surprises. I love sex and interested in sex talks

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I’m new to this! I have a deep desire to have a threesome and explore a male and.. London, UK , 35

Want some fun, then look no further, drop me a message or a pic

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Hi everyone am Rita from London nice me each and everyone London UK, USA , 39

I'm 39 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 83.

Seeking: Male

am humble seeking for my soulmate Uxbridge, UK , 33

very hamble and honest single seeking for my soulmate.

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Im a lifestyle mistress with many years of experienced looking to explore my Dom.. London, UK , 36

My name is mistress Stacy lifestyle Dom with over 12 years experience in serious BDSM and fetish play, i love nothing more than a slave at my feet, in my shadow and ultimately under my control. Entering professional Mistressing as a lifestyle Dom i still thrive off longer engagements with subs the idea of a new project becomes even greater a thrill. Like a fine wine I've enriched with time with regard to my looks, figure and practice. I thrive on the thrill of domination, relishing in the opportunity to give my subs orders and tasks that push their boundaries and test their limits. Whether it's commanding them to kneeling at my feet, worship my body, or perform acts of servitude, i revel in power dynamic of the exchange

Seeking: Male, Couple, Someone Else

Looking for some fun with a guy or a couple. Quite new to this sort of thing… Saint Albans, UK , 24

Just want to get to know someone whilst having some fun!

Seeking: Male, Couple

Single seeking for a honest and trustworthy man to spend the rest of my life wit.. Uxbridge, UK , 31

Very fun to be with and also have everything a man needs don’t hesitate to text me

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I want a naughty sub who’s ready to serve mistress and have his slutty desires c.. London, UK , 34

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Come have fun with me you won’t be disappointed London, UK , 26

Let’s have fun together. I can be very dominant when needed

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I’m looking for someone serious who I can spend the rest of my life time with Wimbledon, UK , 37

Beautiful and honest looking for someone serious to spend the rest of my life time with

Seeking: Male

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