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NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

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STEVE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

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ROGER, 62 from Grafton, Auckland

Roger added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 10:10am) Roger sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Sunday at 8:02am) Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (Wednesday at 2:03am)

JONATHAN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "..." (yesterday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am)

STUART, 55 from Kingsley Heights, Wellington

Hi there and thanks for checking my profile. I'm on here to have some hot fun and to hopefully find some one for a little more as well..who knows? Just looking for a one on one at this stage with NSA if that what you want Im a young minded guy with a great sense of humour...chat and find out some more

MARK, 52 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hi there. I am an easy going independent Caucasian Kiwi guy. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build, with fair hair. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm average build and pretty fit. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it. I'm easy to get on with and happy with all sorts, provided there is a spark and we are having good clean hot fun! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants her needs to be taken care of properly and wants to have some good NSA fun from time to time. Perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapiti/Wellington areas. Discretion is appreciated and will be returned. Drop me a note and say hi :)

GRAHAM, 72 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Not sure if I am in the right place. I am still looking for a relationship that could develop into something longer term. Despite my age I have still have feelings that are to do with both love and intimacy. Sometimes just having a cuddle and a chat can be good too! The most important part of me is the top 2 inches of my head! Everything else is working fine.

JED, 48 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Jed sent you a message: "hi jane" (27th Mar at 1:10am)

ROBBIE, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

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RUFOURMENOW, 62 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Rufourmenow winked at you (15th Mar at 12:28am)

MASE, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Mase winked at you (Saturday at 8:09pm)

JOHN, 34 from Forrest Hill, Auckland

I'm 33, 158cm, 65kg - like to keep in shape and fine dining. Keen to meet someone who knows themselves, and isn't afraid to act on it :)

WOODY, 49 from North

Woody sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (20th Mar at 6:34pm) Woody winked at you (20th Mar at 6:33pm)

CHRIS, 27 from Devonport, Auckland

Chris sent you a message: "Hey" (28th Apr at 1:58am)

BIGBEARS, 35 from North

Single male I own my own home live by my self have just put in a spa pool for the cold winter nights looking for some 1 on 1 good times

DAN, 37 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Dan winked at you (Wednesday at 2:07am)

JOHN, 69 from Red Beach, Auckland

am fit and healthy enjoy sex far too much need nsa action fwb casual or ongoing if we good together

FRANKIIE, 25 from Wellington, Wellington

I'm a single, stay at home mum just looking for some friends and maybe some fun.

MOSIN, 27 from North

Mosin has yet to add his profile. Ask Mosin for more info.

STEVE, 47 from Nelson, Nelson

I like being naughty - let's see how far we can go

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