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Dorah, 65 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

I am 65 years old black and proud to be. I am married but it is a loveless marriage. I am very much young at heart. I need to meet someone to love and someone who will love me back. I dont want to commit as I am still married but as mentioned before it a loveless relationship, I am still here out of duty. There will be more about me when we start chatting. I love music and I am hopelessly romantic. Lets give it a try. I need an honest person please I hate dishonesty.

Xena, 31 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Hard working wife and mother looking for a funny, attractive, hygienic, intelligent long term nsa partner to play hard with on a regular basis.

Jake, 28 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Jake has yet to add his profile. Ask Jake for more info.

Deee, 44 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

I am looking for MUTUAL uncomplicated fun with WHITE guys only ,27 - 45, taller than 1.75 m please . I will only chat and meet white guys !!!! I have my own airtime, don't have kids so don't need babysitting money and am not interested in having a blesser either lol I only meet after work and occasionally on a weekend. I can arrange a venue. What I have marked as interests are my interests. If your real interests differ please move on . I don't do bullshit,lies and changing of interests and personality with any enthusiasm .....

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