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Lardus, 43 from Brits, North West

Looking for no strings fun

Jessica, 43 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Hi I am energetic, bit chubby lady, who enjoy life to the fullest. I have black hair and blue eyes. I love to flirt and will only flirt with white males between fourty two and fifty. And you never know it might lead to more.....

Sandy, 41 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I fantasise about the one.... and please white guys only.....

Rose, 39 from Wellington, Western Cape

I am here to meet that one reliable guy that understand a woman's needs. I love the outdoors, dancing, shoes, lingerie ect. Would like to meet a guy that understand the words discretion, privacy and no strings attached. I dont like being pushed into doing or sharing things that make me feel uncomfortable.

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