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Cc, 38 from Cape Town, Western Cape

what you see is what you get, if you a freak, come and play..... but always looking for someone, who does not mind playing.....We keep it real, we keep it clean...so come let see what hornyness we can get up up to....

Lizl, 49 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Ek is 'n alleen lopend hardwekende jong van gees dame. Sal graag iemand wil ontmoet wat saam met my die lewe kan geniet.

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, just as I won't be cut out for every person I chat to, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. I'm not perfect, but I am me and very happy with my BIG n BOLD BODY, scares included. Please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , I'm not here to keep u entertained whilst u visit Gauteng.

Scoundrel, 50 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Sing with your soul ......dance with your feet...don't forget to let your heart beat to the rhythm you find yourself in. ... And if all else fails ...PANIC!!... slowly... Looking for more than a one nighter If you are looking for fun and adventure and a friend with benefits... Send me a message...

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