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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

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Bunny, 20 from Midrand, Gauteng

Kinky BBW student. Homebody. Interested in men of any race and much older than me. Typically available daytime during the week and sleepovers can be arranged. I don't host. Weekends are out. Long and intellectualy stimulating conversations are a turn on. Keen on being wined and dined. (all pictures are mine) please don't bore me with "hey how you's" Get to the point. Keen to hear from you guys :)

Sharon, 40 from Brits, North West

Here for fun moments to take the edge of the day and boring routine out the window, safety is key no nagging unless you nag to be sucked. I'm clean shaven and sex lives in me. Let's respect the game.

Scoundrel, 50 from Midrand, Gauteng

Sing with your soul ......dance with your feet...don't forget to let your heart beat to the rhythm you find yourself in. ... And if all else fails ...PANIC!!... slowly... Looking for more than a one nighter If you are looking for fun and adventure and a friend with benefits... Send me a message...

Angelo, 33 from Midrand, Gauteng

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