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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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Samu, 37 from Boksburg, Gauteng

I'm a lady looking for fun sex in bedroom I'm willing to learn new tricks. I wud love to meet a guy who knows his story who is willing to teach me new ways in bed someone who wi Give me all I've ever dreamed about in bed. I love all kinds of dicks as long as u know how to use it. U must be the one who will book the place and pay for it.drop me a line lets hook up guys.condom users only please

Claudia, 39 from Randburg, Gauteng

Married bored and lonely looking for some fun please white men only sorry my preference

Gifteddrill, 38 from Alberton, Gauteng

I love eating pussy for breakfast lunch and dinner just to work up an appetite. Then i fill with that whole.

Tebogo, 24 from Noordwyk, Gauteng

Extremely naughty,you gotta be extra naughty to reach my naughtiness level, imagine the fun .......xoxo

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