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Finding adult encounters, fuck buddies and local sex contacts is almost too easy with My bed or Yours.

Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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Meet people you would never imagine used sex dating sites like ours to find un-complicated sex. We have singles just looking for an easy way to meet other singles for some casual encounters without pressures or stresses that often come with a relationship. We also have lots of couples looking for local swingers or other guys or girls for sex games and even married men and women looking for discreet meet ups or casual affairs.

Sex dating is not just for lonely old men, more and more people are embracing it as a legitimate way to meet now people when they simply don't have the time or the interest in forming a serious relationship.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

We recommend that you put a little effort into making your profile as attractive as possible to get the most number of messages. But you're free to do that at your leisure. As soon as you sign up you've got access to our entire member list. To create an account we just need your email address so we can send your details to you. There's no credit card needed at all for your initial account. So why not take a peek.

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Hudson, 40 from Randburg, Gauteng

I am unhappily married and am looking for a friend to chat to, possibly leading to more. I am kind and respectful and expect the same in return. My real name isn't Hudson for obvious reasons that is my fake name. I am discreet and wish to stay that way.

Prisca, 28 from Randburg, Gauteng

Spontaneous and naughty, you want to have fun? Hit me up

Lula, 28 from Ellisras, Limpopo

Medium black lady. No friendship please. No strings attached, but respect and honesty for each are the order of the day. NO CHANCERS AND SCAMS PLEASE.

Hannelie, 54 from Louis Trichardt, Limpopo

Feminine and well groomed, intelligent with a great sense of humor. Interested in men between the ages of 45 and 55. When you get to the age of 54, you certainly lived, but I have never been with a woman, not interested in 3-somes, orgies or anal. I am an Aquarius, if that means anything to you. I love having a great conversation with intelligent people, over a glass of wine and if there is lots of laughter, well, I really appreciate someone with a great sense of humor. Oh by the way, I appreciate the fact that we...

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