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Trish, 28 from Eastern Cape

I guess its only da married men who treat woman well...lok yes in tawking from xpierience after meetin a married gent.....eeeerrrrrrr....wat does a lady say abt herself....dat I'm a single inf female lookin for tlc .love romance n I love being loved .... i work in tourism and am between dbn jhb n capetown...

Jamie, 26 from Soweto, Gauteng

Sex orientation 1; Rookie means that even if you don't know anything, there's room to learn. 2; commando level means u're getting matured and are a master of the fine art of sex and different bodies...at that that stage, It's like u have a PhD and now the bones of ur body can't take the level of your expertise anymore... I hope that I answered u very well Tnx

Lee, 41 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm married and looking for some fun time with the right guy. Discreet an absolute must!!!!

Fantazycatz, 49 from Eastern Cape

Fantazycatz has yet to add her profile.

Angelique, 51 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have frequented this site for almost four years now and have experienced all that such a torrid place has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry Boys, but there is no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and even fallen in love....with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman, who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this forum purely by accident, I have honed more than my literary skills during my time on here and my sexual liberation is documented, for the most part, in my Dating Diary. However, the sign around my neck, now reads: Girlfriend Available, as I am not wired for NSA nor being the Other Woman, It is too emotionally taxing and with my needs having changed, it is time to look elsewhere, for whom and what I seek. Yes, I need to cast my line into another pond, where the fish wants to be caught - hook, line and sinker! In the interim, I will return occasionally to keep up (pun intended!) the correspondence with the pen-pals I have made on here during my escapades and who knows, I might cum across a knight on an iron steed, looking to ride off with a maiden (NO, not the virginal kind) for more than just a romp in the hay! When the inspiration strikes and I am so inclined, I will post of my discursive ramblings on here, but for now, I am rather ambivalent and need to revitalize and recharge my romantic optimism elsewhere..... LOVE (AND GREAT SEX) IS THE MASTER KEY, WHICH OPENS THE DOOR TO HAPPINESS!

Licious, 53 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Seeking just a WHITE GENT, preferably between 45-60 for a long term relationship. Friendship first. For whatever the reason I'm here, I hope to succeed for that reason. I've lived my life, love what I have accomplished in my life, trials and tribulations, scars included. If u looking for a super model, or a FLAWLESS person, then just pass me by. I'm very comfortable with myself. NOT INTO OUT OF TOWN VISITORS OR RANDOM ENCOUNTERS Please respect my preference.

Pv, 37 from Eastern Cape

Pv has yet to add her profile.

B, 36 from Four Ways, Gauteng

I'm a mid 30's Smart, Clean Professional African Male. Fairly tall, and an exercise regular. Occasional drinker and non-smoker.

Kas, 50 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Shasha, 48 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Some things can`t be changed, Your average guy looking for the average girl to have EXTREME FUN, love having sex outdoors, with the risk of getting caught just adding to the excitement.The Forest sounds a absolute TURN ON!!!:=)) Want to create a mind blowing experience,one in a life time opportunity that will make you shiver from .......... !!! The wetter you could become the more I will drive!!!! You want to beg for more and more!!!! Respect mutual understanding and warmth of your soul!!!! Top hygiene clean shaven and top quality for you to play with!!! Discreet,respect and fine things in life,it`s all about fun, laughter and pleasure,PLEASURE!!!!!!!

Amanda, 28 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

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Tinks, 53 from Eastern Cape

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , enjoy Gauteng

Jennimatt, 32 from Eastern Cape

We are both 32...looking for white guys to have threesomes with. Nothing multi-racial please.

Alichia, 21 from Eastern Cape, Eastern Cape

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Malwanza, 34 from Eastern Cape

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Zama, 26 from Cape Town, Western Cape

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Dawn, 45 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am an educated professioanal, adventurous type who likes trying out new things and meeting new people. I am looking for someone to engage in an uncomplicated frindship or relationship which is mutually beneficial. I am tall, dark with a well built gym body. I am calm mannered, intelligent, independant and i know how to treat a woman - i am not a time waster. Lets give it a try.

Kea, 20 from Eastern Cape

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Jacky, 34 from Eastern Cape

I'm single African,independent hard working and fun.i enjoy reading and meeting people.I think I'm fun to be around ,wouldn't mind trying new things ,never shy to say No. I like gentlemen, respectful preferably professional, mature somebody. I am not after anybody s cash gentleman. This is me trying to own my pleasure. I'm here for fun.if you happen to do one or two things for me it's entirely your choice.

Mariska, 31 from Sandton, Gauteng

I am am a 31 year old woman living in Sandton, I have no children and am not married. I'm am interested in having an affair with a married man. I love to travel, and experience the finer things in life. I'm a fun girl to be with and am really good company. I'm very selective in who I spend time with. I'm looking for classy gentlemen age 40 to 55. I will not reply to anyone who don't meet my standards. PLEASE don't expect me to reply to your messages Immediatly. I will do so in my own time. Don't bother to message me if you under 40 or older than 55,unmarried or not half decent looking. I am not on here to look for just sex. I want to be friends first. I'm also not into any weird sex, fantasies or threesomes. I'm just a down to earth girl looking for company. And yes my photos are very much real.

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