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Andre, 49 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Middle aged man. Has a lot of fun to offset stressed job. Outdoor hobbies combined with academic interests. I play many different sports, all badly. Enjoy hiking , fishing , reading. Enjoy kinky sex in mild doses. My best sexy asset is my pierced dick, something different! Looking for ladies with similar fetish interests, to make up 3 sum

Chris, 46 from Western Cape

Hi I'm a friendly and outgoing person. Love outdoors movies and fishing

Asseneth, 45 from Western Cape

Am 44yrs old matured lady full figure looking for casual sex experience no strings attached with blackman whose full of fun know his story pussy fucker.am looking for some1 to fulfil my wildest fantasies satisfy my voracious sexual appetite. I luv experimenting in the bedroom in fact the more sex the better as far as am concerned

Liz, 27 from Witbank, Mpumalanga

How Much Fun Can This Be? Sexy? Maybe more then sexy...! Hours of Fun... Naughty Action... The word sexiness comes to mind, that is what I want, soft, cute, nice, fun filled sexiness! Thinking of the wild side of it, how wild can this get? Want to explore, sexy - fun - laughter - wild- sense of humor - maybe some craziness - intense, wow the list can go on and on. Bring out the wild side of me and you. I am Witty, Cheeky and Very Straight forward, a happy girl with a wicked sense of humor!! Unexpected fun as I am not a big planner and don't like to over think... Fun will never make you the odd one out!! Lesson well learned from the site, be who YOU are, put away the seriousness and let go... If you can't be open, full of fun, then you are on the wrong site honey bun! ;-) I am not looking for a Romeo and Juliet love story, as I write my own memories and story! Yes, I am a over weight, but it doesn't mean that I am a bimbo with no class! You can buy a Barbie Doll at Reggies. ;-) !!! I can also do normal meaning, I like rugby, I love having a braai, I like to have a glass of wine when ever I feel like it, romantic nights when ever, where ever! So before I write a novel, drop me a line. NO what's app as my number is my privacy!! P.S. White Guys ONLY! ;-)

Sphe, 24 from Western Cape

I'm a young, ambitious, BBW with curves in the right places.. I like 2 go out n party with friends, enjoy cooking, n listening 2 music. I have a 'thing' for mature men and big dicks, no matter d race- as long as u gonna b pleasing me accordingly, I don't mind. I love the outdoors. I DON'T do married men.. Should u want 2 know more, feel free 2 ask!

Tanz, 37 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am a keen student of new ideas and desires Everyone has a dark passion for the unknown and i want to discover mine with someone willing to explore with me who is not scared of expressing themselves and enjoy dirty crazy nights filled with nothing but hard rough fucking and pure pleasures

Lerato, 26 from Centurion, Gauteng

lets have NSA fun..............

Amy, 43 from Margate, KwaZulu-Natal

Swinging lovers. Loke to have sex with older and chubby guys. My partner loves girls and even chubby women. We do swinging. Originally from Gauteng

John, 31 from Marlboro, Gauteng

At least reply and say no thanks.....

Keem, 30 from Rustenburg, North West

Any Responsible man can contact me, If i respond then you know am interested, Only serious one's please. Please Please do not ask me unimportant or Stupid questions. Or try to know everything about me on the first day. NB Am not sex starved so please don't think i want to FUCK every Dick and Harry on this site. May be Only one Responsible, Serious person. Only one is enough for me. And Please stop sending me your phone number and BBM pin with your first message without my permission, it shows you did not even read my profile note before writing me and it gives you A ZERO CHANCE

Leonie, 37 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I'm an outgoing, friendly woman that is looking for a regular NSA arrangement or once-off hook ups (if that is your preference). Please single WHITE men only - no married, separated or guys in relationships. And please guys, don't lie about your looks or your age- if I can put my real self out there, it's only fair that you do the same. No chancers please! Hope to hear from you soon ;-)

Elaine, 39 from Western Cape

Regular coloured girl, covered in chocolate brown skin staying in ta hoods. I dont pretend, work and loads of stuff to keep me busy bt we all human. Loneliness do hav a way of getting in ur mind and u just wanna mmmmmmmmmm #hornyhorny#! I'm no supermodel... im a large gal, warm heart AND with a body just Overflowing with awsumness..... We all hav fantasies sooo let me b urz and you b mine.. rock each others world. Y am i on this website? . uhmmm well, On here to experience ta naughty fun side of me, myself and I. Soooo if u want to be my FRIEND, hook up, sex sex sex, nsa fun.. give me a shout out! keep it discreet we all adults.. im actually horny while typing this.. #finger# Please note I am nt interested in 3SUM's. I'M ta only gal u would b fucking.

Sarah, 43 from Western Cape

A mother of two who's looking for a friend with benefits or NSA sex; whichever shall occur first. Preferably aged between 36 and 50. Race is not an issue.

Gray, 38 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Well groomed professional guy single and muscular.

Kate, 29 from Western Cape

bubbly person, looking for some fun and just sex no strings attached pls

Jany, 33 from Western Cape

I'm NOT here for NSA FUN. I can only chat with DECENT guys. Pls if u have a naked pics DON'T contact me cos to me u are naughty. But I can be naughty with that SPECIAL guy. I just wanna chat but anything is POSSIBLE I can be your LOVER if u are loking for one. But only if I like u

Nomusa, 47 from Western Cape

down-to-earth woman, single, here for fun and enjoy da life to the fullest. looking for handsome mature man who can satisfy me sexually and share good moments & laughter together.

Kinkyvixen, 31 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Hey there I am a care free and easy going girl looking for some laughs and fun. If you are keen pop in and say hello ;)

Elexa, 37 from Pretoria, Gauteng

I am a 36 yrs old woman looking for a discreet relationship,i am very reserved and down to earth lady.

Andre, 36 from Klerksdorp, North West

Just lookking and wondering because I don't want a serious relationship now in my life

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