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Thapelo, 32 from North Riding, Gauteng

Hello, I'm not one for long chats, I prefer calls and/or meetings I'm here NSA for steamy NSA encounters.

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , enjoy Gauteng

Lee, 41 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm married and looking for some fun time with the right guy. Discreet an absolute must!!!!

Zama, 26 from Western Cape

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