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Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange naughty thoughts. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.

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Adult dating is a fantastic way to add some excitement into your life, meet new people and ultimately, get loads of great sex. Unfortunately the adult dating industry is a minefield of dishonest operators who put profit before their members. Not us, we pride ourselves on our great member satisfaction record, outstanding dedicated customer support team and industry leading site features and security. You will not find any automated member messages designed to encourage users to pay for upgraded site features or access or staff members posing as members in an attempt to lure you into upgrading your account. All our member profiles are regularly checked by our memberships team who are on the lookout for scammers and unusual behaviour. Our membership team also offer a free photo verification service so you can display a verified badge on your picture, a feature which is proven to get you more interest from other members. Adult dating should be an easy, fun experience. Our aim is to make your online dating experience as enjoyable as possible.

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Tanz, 37 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am a keen student of new ideas and desires Everyone has a dark passion for the unknown and i want to discover mine with someone willing to explore with me who is not scared of expressing themselves and enjoy dirty crazy nights filled with nothing but hard rough fucking and pure pleasures

Chris, 52 from Somerset West, Western Cape

Energetic and fun. I love flirting and the energy of a new relationship. So good to think of the possibilities. Looking for discreet FWB arrangement. It must be fun and based on a positive connection. Love to share some amazing times....

Amy, 43 from Margate, KwaZulu-Natal

Swinging lovers. Loke to have sex with older and chubby guys. My partner loves girls and even chubby women. We do swinging. Originally from Gauteng

Sarah, 43 from Pretoria, Gauteng

A mother of two who's looking for a friend with benefits or NSA sex; whichever shall occur first. Preferably aged between 36 and 50. Race is not an issue.

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