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Helen, 31 from Krugersdorp, Gauteng

I'm 31 years old. I love having fun. I'm a little chubby not FAT. I love nature fun times and hanging out.

Eugene, 33 from Queensburgh, Kwazulu-Natal

Single guy seeking NSA fun, whatever that may mean to you. Not looking to sleep around with multiple partners. Ill be as discreet as is needed, as i respect that some are unhappily married. Looking to chat at first, to see if we click, and then take it from there. P.S. if you cant be bothered to have at least 1 profile pic, even if it is of the back of your head, dont botger to wink, message, or even view my profile. We are all here trying to have discreet fun, abd we will keep it that way.

Thulile, 22 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am sexy, fun and i have a beautiful personality

Ignatia, 38 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Biggish, always horny - but please do not send me winks...

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