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Roger, 45 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Hi I'm very easy going open minded.looking for nawty fun game for anything. Pls just leave your number or email details for us to meet up lol

Sue, 50 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Mid life crisis time...insatiable sexual appetite

Bulelwa, 38 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Sexy girl!!! The wildest thing l have ever done is ... guess my dear!

Di, 55 from Western Cape

I don't believe in NSA. we are human...Really not into married guys hey not cool. Please message me winks just don't do it ... Love the Bush camping and waves I don't cross the colour line. WE NEED LOADS OF CHEMISTRY. ...

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