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Enrique, 37 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Extremely passionate and looking for some Exotic wild fun!

Rose, 39 from Western Cape

I am here to meet that one reliable guy that understand a woman's needs. I love the outdoors, dancing, shoes, lingerie ect. Would like to meet a guy that understand the words discretion, privacy and no strings attached. I dont like being pushed into doing or sharing things that make me feel uncomfortable.

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Enthusiast. Love to laugh. Kind hearted, but a b#tch when needs be... Not looking for anything hectic... most importantly NO DRAMA! so if u have a craxy ex or serious baby-mama drama, kindly refrain contacting me...

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Sensual, fire-hot, willing, gentle, joyful and adventurous. I'm looking for a man who loves a woman with curves. I love to be turned on by your desire, I love the smell of a man, the touch of a man, the love of a man. Your body is exciting to me and what it does to me turns me on. Don't contact me if you are younger than 45, black, married, or in a relationship.

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