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MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (Wednesday at 7:08pm) Michael winked at you (19th Feb at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

RAURI, 23 from Manurewa, Auckland

Rauri has yet to add his profile. Ask Rauri for more info.

HARRY, 63 from Auckland

Harry sent you a message: "Hi Jane from Harry" (24th Apr at 9:25am) Harry winked at you (24th Apr at 9:23am) Harry added you as a Favourite (24th Apr at 2:32am) Harry winked at you (19th Apr at 5:07am) Harry winked at you (15th Apr at 4:18am)

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry sent you a message: "Hey jane" (Monday at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (Monday at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (16th Feb at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (12th Feb at 1:38am) Harry winked at you (12th Feb at 1:38am)

CRASHTEST, 45 from Devonport, Auckland

I am a fit tall 40 something, enjoying life to the fullest. I play tennis and enjoy running and the great outdoors. I am looking for a like minded person to see for a wine and a good time.... once a week or fornight what ever fits in.

DARREN, 44 from Rongotea, Manawatu-Wanganui

Darren sent you a message: "Chatting" (Wednesday at 3:02am) Darren winked at you (Wednesday at 3:00am)

PAUL, 51 from Nelson South, Nelson

Well here go's, for me its about love on all levels. someone with a careing heart, a sense of humour, compassion and humility. With a deeper sense of knowing. Single, yet with an open minded in outlook on life. Predictable, stable, genuine, sensitive to the needs, loves of another. Can be surprising in a nice way. A love of sensuality, very much of the moment, and life as being now. Not so much of the past nor of what might be. Yet free to dream. For i'm very much here to bring some joy to your world. what you've been missing or never really had. To remove that disapointment, to feel as you've always wanted to feel. Now's the opportunity, let's make it happen : ) *

KOLVER, 46 from Auckland

Here for casual hook ups. Friendly straight up guy. What you see is what you get. Honest and reliable!

PHIL, 46 from North Shore, Auckland

Professional single guy (recently come out of 9 yr marriage) looking for some uncomplicated fun. Sporty and like to party,.... Oh yeh open minded and getting hornier as I get older!

RICHARD, 49 from Auckland

Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Saturday at 12:19am)

TOM, 45 from Mangere East, Auckland

You answer the door wearing nothing but a towel . You invite me in as you drop the towel . That's when we kiss for the first time and our adventure begins ......

JAMES, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

Keen for some fun.

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (yesterday at 2:03am) George sent you a message: "How are you hun" (Tuesday at 11:06pm) George winked at you (Monday at 1:07am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 12:44am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Saturday at 6:47pm)

NAKED, 37 from Auckland

Naked sent you a message: "Email me Jane :-)" (24th Apr at 10:53am) Naked winked at you (8th Apr at 9:05am) Naked winked at you (3rd Apr at 11:49am)

NAKED, 37 from Auckland

Naked sent you a message: "Hello Ms Jane" (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (10th Feb at 2:36am)

CRAIG, 54 from Auckland

Craig winked at you (Monday at 3:43am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (12th Feb at 1:16am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (12th Feb at 1:14am) Craig sent you a message: "Proflie" (12th Feb at 1:13am)

LOKI, 45 from Greenlane, Auckland

Loki sent you a message: "Hi there" (19th Feb at 1:18am) Loki winked at you (4th Feb at 1:22am)

ISAAC, 24 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Isaac has yet to add his profile. Ask Isaac for more info.

MATHEW, 39 from Wellington, Wellington

Just love to please in any way n.e time

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Luke sent you a message: "OH" (8th Apr at 12:12pm) Luke sent you a message: "Hey" (6th Apr at 9:57am) Luke sent you a message: "Hello again!" (4th Apr at 2:01am)

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