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WSYNE, 56 from Auckland, Auckland

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LUCKYYEARS, 67 from Terrace End, Manawatu-Wanganui

I'm a trim tanned fit 75kg 176cm. tall male. I look after my body, which is that of a much younger male, I love the outdoors and miss the close contact with a lady since I've been widowed. I'm looking for a lady to fulfill my and her fantasies and you never know where it may lead. Eventually I'd prefer a long term relationship if the right lady came along. Not fun feeling horny and lonely on your own. If you are interested please drop me a line.

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