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IEM, 23 from Manurewa, Auckland

Good times??. ,Open to anything really youll never know if you never ask. If your horny and your cocks clean. Not fussy well inbox me. I'm new to this by the way.

BIGBEAUTY, 26 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hi my name is Samantha and I'm 26 years old :) Never been on a site like this before and thought I would try it. I'm a big girl who likes to have fun. Also I'm a virgin and would like to find someone to share my special moment with ;)

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ANDRETTIK, 24 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

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