Browse our members in Northland
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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.
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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.
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Mike winked at you (Monday at 6:36pm)
Harry sent you a message: "HEY" (Sunday at 1:33am) Harry winked at you (Sunday at 1:33am) Harry added you as a Favourite (Sunday at 1:33am)
Well good people were not here to park cars or wait on tables, this life's not a rehearsal so let's have some cracking fun "ENJOY"
I'm looking for a companion to have good times with and, as with most men, think I'm reasonably (read very!) good at what I do but I'm always willing to practice and improve. I'm always listening for what you like best and I enjoy sex in all of its endless variations. NSA works for me but, if things do go well, films, dinner, and, just maybe, some dancing (I seem to be somewhat rhythmically challenged). I like the outdoors for all sorts of activities and enjoy the space and privacy of the bush on a warm summer's day, but also walking, especially with a couple of dogs, swimming and sailing. If the weather is too awful, there are art galleries and museums and lots of interesting out of the way places to explore, or just curl up in front of a fire with a glass (or two) of my finest. I'm not expecting a committed relationship but I'm happy to see where things may lead and have some good times and adventures along the way.
Richard winked at you (18th Jan at 1:22am) Richard sent you a message: "...." (14th Jan at 6:50pm)
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David sent you a message: "Jane" (Saturday at 1:06am) David winked at you (Saturday at 1:06am)
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looking for NSA discreet encounters with a flash of excitement...
Hi NSA please
Cable winked at you (yesterday at 1:11am) Cable winked at you (Tuesday at 2:01am) Cable winked at you (Sunday at 1:29am) Cable sent you a message: "xx" (Saturday at 1:16am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 2:20am)
Mike sent you a message: ":)" (27th Apr at 2:08am)
Genuine 1st timer Maori male 39 shy honest hard working single seeks mature white lady to 4fill m y wildest fantasy I've had since a very erotic experience I had with my school teacher while in standard 4 on a school trip and in return I will do all I can to help 4fill n e fantasy u mite like to 4fill hoping there mite b a mature lady out there willing to take a chance with me
I am chatty but shy about sex, I have some fantasies like BDSM but have never tried this. I am not thin but neither fat, if you like a tall and curvy woman message me.
Bored housewife in need of a discreet boost...
Love to explore the magic written in all of life Deep and compassionate, so drawn to the greatest of life's creation the fine curves of women. Looking for a great friend and lover, and who knows maybe even the chance of connection with me twin flame
seem shy till you get to know me. good sense of humor.
David sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Sunday at 1:55am) David winked at you (16th Jan at 2:25am)
It's extremely common for couples to want to experiment in the bedroom, after all haven't you ever thought about someone else? The trouble is how do you meet other people? My Bed is the online social network for swingers, open relationships and those looking for some NSA fun. It's simple to find other normal people like you who want to indulge their fantasies. Just choose your requirements and see who else is around Northland.
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