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Baz, 42 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Tall, introvert, funny, intelligent, adventurous.

Cheryl, 44 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for someone to chat to, lets see what happens... Oh and watch your mouth, it can be used for more delicious activities. So here are my preferences, no offense intended. I feel its only right that I tell you. So here they are: Only men from 37 to 49yrs. No men of African descent. I appreciate a profile pic. Even the penis pics. There are so many on this site, they all starting to look the same.....lol.

Lisa, 43 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Lots of NSA attention to give to the right kinda man

Joanne, 52 from Alice, Eastern Cape

I once had sex in my friends lounge, no doors..................... I would like to meet fun friends online that doesn't want strings attached. Chat only. No calls. No meetings yet. Yes im not single, but I do like to have sex, but "oupa" don't! I would like to get naughty online, and would like to talk to someone who cant see my face, and give him a dream of a blowjob!! The prize? If he tells me he had to go and clean up after he had a awesome orgasm!

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