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Willie, 50 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

We are a couple that like to play we are real kinky like a 3 party in the game we are fun loving and calm open to all and anything

Queen, 31 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Queen has edited her profile and it is pending approval.

Bucy, 34 from Bloubergstrand, Western Cape

Wildest thing that i have ever done was to have sex with my ex in my office during office hours. The excitement of being caught and the unplanned sex made it all mind blowing.

Cindy, 24 from Bloubergstrand, Western Cape

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